Girls Chase Podcast

The higher your meet-to-lay ratio, the more of the women you meet end up in bed. What’s it take to RAISE your meet-to-lay ratio though… how do you get really, really good? In this webinar, we discuss the mechanics of good game with the most technically skilled pick up artist in the field today, Alek Rolstad. Alek has bedded hundreds of women across Europe and beyond with his patented Sex Talk Method and irresistibly seductive Sexual Prizing. He breaks down how he does it inside. As you listen, you’ll discover: • How lockdowns in Europe have affected Alek’s game (01:19) • How Alek’s bounced back quickly from lockdowns and laid new girls right away each time lockdowns are lifted (02:33) • Why do most guys who cold approach women have to deal with so much rejection? (04:53) • When girls reject guys they actually like (07:26) • On guys being either TOO sexual with women… or not nearly sexual ENOUGH (08:57) • The need for efficiency AND consistency in your sexual approach toward women (12:45) • Doing sex talk

Welcome back to Dating Mechanics on Girls Chase! Today we have the second part of my interview with Daniel Adebayo from earlier this year, easily one of the most consistent night-game and day-game specialist I’ve met and seen in action. He’s easily one of the most innovative and consistent gamers I’ve seen. Last time while in Montreal, we talked about how to get women in your bed using verbal game, and how Daniel’s unique style of verbal game can give any guy an edge in getting women’s attention in the modern age of overstimulation. For this podcast, we continue that conversation with a focus on consistency, and specifically how Daniel has achieved consistency in his game style. If a guy wants to improve his game, there should always be a focus on being more consistent. And what’s truly rewarding with this style is how confident it can make a guy in knowing he can meet and sleep with a woman with a predictable amount of effort. As we spoke about meeting women with him in Canada, Daniel explains how his foc

Today once again I feature Franco, with whom I’ve done several podcasts. We met up in San Diego over New Years and talked about a girl’s comfort on dates, which is a sticking point I had late last year, where it was difficult to tell how comfortable a girl was on a date, which made it tough to move things forward. Franco always tells me about his excellent track record on dates, as he was closing 9 out of 10 girls he would take on dates with him. What helps is his ability to gauge a girl’s comfort and where she is emotionally on a date. Knowing a girl’s comfort level and emotions are key in the moment, as this allows you to determine what you need to do to move a date forward toward intimacy – and very importantly, when. Girls also often give mixed signals to test a guy, and a good guy should know how to handle these tests as he moves the process along with a girl. In this podcast, we talk about how to determine a girl’s comfort level early on a date, the adjustments in vibe we need to make to make her m

Welcome back to Dating Mechanics, our podcast here on Girls Chase! Today I feature a special guest who was recommended to me by Chase himself. Joshua Spodek (who actually used to be a dating coach himself) is now an expert on leadership, training, and taking initiative. He has several PhDs, writes a column for Inc., and has five Ivy league degrees. In this podcast, we’re here to talk about his upcoming new book, called Initiative, where Josh shares how anyone in any place in life can start taking initiative to create extraordinary results in life. Podcast Details: Taking Initiative 02:30 – We introduce Joshua, and we talk about his background in New York, and how he began teaching how to improve lives. We also talk about textbook learning versus performance based learning, and how traditional learning has failed. 05:00 – Traditional mainstream education teaches people to comply, and it tells you what’s important. Joshua shows how traditional textbook and example-based learning leaves people with fewer optio

Welcome back to Dating Mechanics on Girls Chase! Today I feature Daniel Adebayo, one of our newer and younger authors on GirlsChase – and easily already one of the best night game and day game guys I’ve met and seen in action. Still in college, Daniel has already mastered night game and day game using a combination of Gunwitch’s Seduction MMA – which we’ve featured in another podcast – and his emotional stimulation, social frame, and sexual frame techniques. He also utilizes a good amount of Alek Rolstad’s sex talk. He’s easily one of the most innovative and consistent gamers I’ve seen, and I was lucky enough to witness him in action. In this podcast, which we recorded together in Montreal, Quebec. We talk about how to get women in your bed using verbal game, and how Daniel’s unique style of verbal game can give any guy an edge in getting women’s attention in the modern age of overstimulation. PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS: Why Verbal Game? 2:55 – Daniel’s story so far 3:10 – Different things he’s tried before g

Welcome back to Dating Mechanics on Girls Chase! Today we feature a show in development for quite some time with my first female guest – Shari James – who runs a successful coaching practice based out of Los Angeles, CA called Architecture of Pleasure to help men resolve Erectile Dysfunction. Podcast Highlights: 1:50 – Introduction to Shari James, her mission in treating Erectile Dysfunction. 4:15 – Shari explains how she started her business Architecture of Pleasure as a result of a history in stripping. 7:10 – Stripping and dancing was a freedom of expression for Shari – and it pulled guys into her 9:10 – Women don’t give men enough time to talk – and Shari trained herself to give men space to be emotional. 10:40 – Shari’s journey leads her into the erotic arts and tantric massage. 13:20 – Shari’s path takes her to offering sexual healing to men, women, and couples. 15:50 – Shari wants to take the suffering out of ED for men and to educate men on sexuality and healing, using her 26 years of experien

Welcome back to another episode of Dating Mechanics! I’m Varoon Rajah, and today we explore a topic that frequently comes up on the Girls Chase boards – the question of dating your dream girl as a minority. PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS 02:25 – Intro to the podcast with Franco and Amrit 03:20 – Franco talks about how guys complain on the boards about the minority issue, and never take the advice they’re given. The same questions are repeatedly asked, and the same advice is repeatedly given but ignored, reinforcing negativity. 04:30 – Introducing Amrit, and how Franco and Amrit met. Amrit talks about his background in India and San Diego, and how he didn’t have the American cultural experience. 06:15 – Differences in mindsets between America and India, and how it’s important to adapt to a new culture. Most guys that struggle don’t change their mindset. Amrit was able to get his desired girls without joining any social scenes. 07:15 – How Amrit approached, met, and dated his first hot girl in the United States. It tu

Gunwitch has been in the PUA community and a teacher since the days of MASF, The Game, Mystery, and Neil Strauss. His method, dubbed “Gunwitch Method,” is incredibly powerful, centered around the use of body-states to attract and arouse women. Today, we’re going to cover the basics of Gunwitch’s Seduction MMA – how to use sub-communication with sexual arousal, emotional stimulation, and social frames to make girls work for you and chase after you. HIGHLIGHTS 0:00 – Introduction to Gunwitch and Seduction MMA, and how he started on MASF. 02:40 – Early Gunwitch method and the importance of projecting a sexual state with women. 04:40 – Why sub-communicating that you’re a cool guy is more effective than verbals in game. 06:20 – How the amygdala is reversed in women, and why this makes women value a man’s behavior more than his looks. 08:00 – How ovulation and biological cycles affect female behavior. 09:20 – The three keys of Seduction MMA post hook: social frame, emotional stimulation, sexual arousal. 11

I’m pleased to announce Part 2 of my interview with Franco Lombardi on the importance of Discipline. Discipline is more of a mindset approach to dating as opposed to having an uncontrolled environment. • 00:20 – A quick review of Part 1 • 01:41 – How to strategize what methods to keep and what to stop using, and why the #1 goal of every guy is to find a system that works to get laid, then focus on improving different parts • 03:12 – If you know A, keep A. Don’t change A if it works, but start solving for other variables until you’re getting laid. Online dating is a great testing ground for variables • 04:55 – Location as its own variable – how to play with dating apps • 06:40 – Why beginners and virgins should set small goals to start. Approach and A: open a girl with the Goal of B: a conversation. Then once A is complete, move to B. Then once B is complete, go to C: get her number • 08:30 – How building a disciplined system is like building a custom ladder where every rung is a specific process • 09:35 – Co

Have you ever tried a technique or maybe hit a sticking point in your dating life, then wonder why whatever you’re doing didn’t work? If so, this podcast will help. Discipline is more of a mindset approach to dating as opposed to having an uncontrolled environment. The idea behind discipline is threefold: • There are things I know that work; I want to continue to use those things • I need to stop doing things that don’t work for my dating methods • I also need to create systems that test what I’m not sure about Since this is a hefty subject, I’ve broken up the podcast into two segments: In Part 1: • Introduction to Franco and discipline (00:45) • Why Franco believes discipline is important, and the mindset of discipline (01:32) • Discipline as compared to a scientific method and an equation (03:00) • Controlled versus tested variables (03:52) • Varoon’s example of how a single variable changed the outcome of his date (04:07) • Varoon discusses how he confused the cause of his failure on the date (05:22)

Sign up for phone coaching with Hector Castillo! Find out everything Hector teaches to students in this exclusive one-on-one interview. Topics covered include: ▪ “Girls are girls”, whether you meet them in Europe or America (0:57) ▪ How Hector went from video game nerd to international playboy (2:18) ▪ Befriending naturals and finding mentors: what’s the best way to do this? (6:01) ▪ The 3 College Game Styles: BMOC, Slowburn, and Wildcard (7:01) ▪ How to really ‘own’ one of the 3 College Game Styles (8:24) ▪ Is there a certain College Game Style that works better than the others? (9:42) ▪ Which of the College Game Styles is the easiest to use? (11:02) ▪ How easy (or hard) is it to transition from college to “real world” game? (12:30) ▪ The biggest hangup students have moving from college to “real world” game (14:25) ▪ Between college game, day game, and nightclubs, what does Hector like best? (15:18) ▪ How to project romantic fantasies onto a girl you meet with “Romantic Projection” (1

How do you meet girls when you are the quiet, introverted guy? Well, the good news is, quiet guys have a lot of power to do very well with women, once they can get over that initial 'shyness' hump. In this podcast, you'll discover how veteran Girls Chase coach Cody Lyans went from quiet guy rejected by girls... to stud seducer who pulls women off dance floors and makes girls hang on his every word and beg to know him better. Along the way, Cody shares some of his powerful girl-getting technology, and gives you a peek at what you can expect to learn if you sign up for his paradigm-shifting 12-week coaching course. In this podcast you'll learn: ▪ On living places where it's tough to meet girls (01:18) ▪ How quiet of a guy is Cody Lyans? (02:23) ▪ The sexual element of Cody's quiet guy game (03:33) ▪ How Cody got his start in dating (03:47) ▪ Why Cody first started coaching guys on dating (18:40) ▪ What a 'base vibe' is and how this gets you past women's barriers (22:47) ▪ The thing most guys g

A few of us Girls Chase authors met up in Stockholm, Sweden this past summer. We met plenty of women, both during the day and night, and had lots of fun observing and adapting many of the different social strategies we teach on Girls Chase. • Pablo, Alek, and Varoon discuss our third night out, at a large indie rooftop dance venue. (3:24) • Alek and Pablo discuss their big lesson of the night. (4:15) • Pablo discusses his “bullshit opener” and why it’s not important what you open with, but HOW you open. (5:45) • Pablo introduces the traffic light system – how to tell if a girl is receptive to an advance. (6:49) • Pablo and Alek compare their night game styles – Alek’s verbal game vs. Pablo’s escalation game. (7:27) • Alek discusses wingman styles and how to synchronize. (8:38) • Alek and Pablo note how both girls they were talking to separated themselves to be with the boys. (10:40) • Pablo’s ultimate compliance test. (11:38) • Alek introduces his Tantric Sex routine and why it’s important to introduce sexua

Daka Guy shows you how to drop the repression of social conditioning and get in touch with your true, authentic sexual and romantic desires. Highlights include: • How Daka Guy got his start in sexuality exploration (04:52) • The new “happily ever after”: beautiful outcomes even with breakups (07:19) • Was Daka Guy’s harmony with women something he was born with? (11:04) • The “unraveling process” people go through as they discover themselves (12:30) • Why is it so hard to facilitate a mind-blowing relationship with a partner? (14:04) • Total honesty with a partner, and the “I can’t share this with my partner” problem (15:19) • The difference between an honest, intimate conversation, and trying to impress (18:28) • Physical vs. spiritual ways to approach sexuality (21:03) • What you say you want in a mate versus what you actually desire in a mate (24:54) • On not getting stuck in relationships you’re unhappy with (35:21) • How tantra fits into identifying your true desire (36:46) • What does an a

Ruwando talks sexual magnetism, instinct, and the power of unfiltered emotion in bedding lots and lots of women. Highlights include: • Dangers and inefficiencies of mechanical pickup artistry (05:13) • Thoughts on erectile dysfunction being common among millennials (10:15) • Tapping into your instinctual, animal, mating self (11:53) • How to make subconscious, intuitive reads on girls (17:49) • Why people shut down empathy and stop listening to instinct (28:31) • Why women are acting like men in the modern world (30:47) • People sync to the most emotionally dominant person (33:31) • Becoming extremely attractive by ridding yourself of sexual shame (37:05) • Being free with your emotions and removing the filter (38:38) • The point where a lot of guys lose in difficult situations with girlfriends (43:22) • Viewing women’s tests as a fun game (45:36) • Stress, cortisol, and the root cause of younger men’s erectile dysfunction issues (47:34) • On perfectionism - there is no “perfect” (50:27) • 3 t

One of the seduction community’s most prolific seducers, nightlife pro and admitted sex addict Pablo Garcia discusses his approach to getting lots of hookups with very hot girls. His biggest tools: sexual touch, sexual conversation, and strategic venue changes. Highlights include: • How Pablo started to use nonverbal escalation to sleep with lots of girls (6:08) • What is game? The “Stop Light” paradigm (10:35) • The key to loving girls (11:54) • The problem of talking about game with the uninitiated (14:30) • What kind of venues does Pablo like most for night game? (18:01) • How to use venue changes to increase comfort with girls you meet at night (18:39) • The approach in a bar vs. the approach in a club (19:42) • What Pablo does during his introduction to a new girl (22:21) • The importance of fundamental (you can’t skip these!) (22:46) • Guys who are used to seeing women as either pure or whores (26:05) • How to achieve a genuine “don’t give a fuck” mentality (very attractive to women) (29:30

Alek details a number of explosive, powerful techniques for turning girls on in nightclubs. In addition, he talks about how to overcome “wild cards” that pop up at random while you talk to girls… Plus how to deal with friends and other men who decide to intervene. Also covered: pulling girls to the bathroom, and how to get her so excited about you she crosses the “Point of No Return.” • Alek describes a seduction from the weekend before the podcast (03:55) • Alek’s “We’ve become too scientific about sex” bit (08:00) • The critical decision of “which girl do you go for?” (12:36) • How do you time and pace an interaction with a girl? (15:29) • “Social Touch” and strategic touching: when and how to use touch (18:25) • How to maintain control of the interaction and stay in the lead (21:03) • Chopin’s “Universal Answer” to women’s tests (22:33) • Why would anyone bother with the complexity of night game? (23:03) • 3 mindsets to have in mind when you go out at night (27:44) • The “Party Vibe” and why to

Dr. David Tian shows you how to unlock powerful inner game using the Dao state and his new program Invincible. Channel charisma, sexiness, and complete unshakeable confidence. * How David got into the dating and social sciences (02:30) * What causes women to lose respect for you in a relationship (15:03) * Which should you focus on first: mindsets or tactics? (16:25) * Things men do that stop them from being their most natural/attractive selves (17:14) * Can any guy reach this natural, attractive state? (20:40) * How men used to pick up girls historically (23:21) * What is the Dao State? (24:48) * The Dao State of Power: how to enable yourself to do well socially (28:38) * A few things that all girls everywhere want in a man (30:58) * A word that starts with “P” that levels your game up dramatically (32:17) * “Leading through emotions”, a principle you can use to make girls chase after you (38:10) * An example of leading for introverts David learned from a weir

Alek Rolstad details his process for meeting girls in nightclubs and lounges. Included is one detailed seduction, and a lot of juicy tech. * An example of how Alek picks up a girl at night (03:50) * How Alek tied repression to desire with girls (09:06) * The good sex vs. “McDonald’s hookups” contrast (14:16) * Getting a kiss from a girl who resists the first kiss (15:38) * Example of pulling a girl home for sex (17:00) * An easy tool to build her anticipation up before sex (18:30) * How is night game different from other ways to meet girls? (21:19) * What does Alek think is the most important aspect of night game? (24:23) * Do a lot of guys get night game all wrong? (27:12) * How to create a social vibe (29:11) * Why less (or not) masturbation makes you so much sexier (30:51) * More tips to how to get yourself in a good place to meet girls (32:16) * What venues to choose to go out to at night (33:25) * The difference between chaotic vs. intimate venues

Glenn Pearce gives the listener tons of tools on how to overcome approach anxiety for good. Plus, a sneak peek of his 12-week course. Selected topics of conversation... * How to find great women just about anywhere (01:42) * Was Glenn scared to talk to girls when he started? (04:09) * How Glenn got over his own approach anxiety (05:30) * Why the fear of approaching is different from other fears (08:36) * Visualization as a technique for beating approach anxiety (10:47) * Does self-esteem have an impact on approach anxiety? (15:28) * Conditioning oneself to not approach women… and why men do this (19:43) * Glenn’s “Hot Girl in the Room” Effect: what it is and how it works (21:07) * Illusory value: why her value before you approach is an illusion (24:30) * The “Safety Straightjacket”, and how playing it safe leads to rejection (26:23) * Some of the most common ways guys play things too safe (30:40) * How long does it take for a guy to stop “holding himself back”? (32:07) * Thinking about dating progress in te