Do The Work

You have to fight to become the powerful women that you long to be. In today’s episode of Do the Work, Carla talks about losing friendships, and family members because she decided to take a stand for herself. She wanted to be the women that had a backbone and voice in this world. She now empowers other women to do the same thing. Follow along in this powerful episode where Carla speaks from her heart.   ___________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now. From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers i

Sometimes in life, you just have to roll with the punches. In today’s episode of Do the Work, Carla talks about putting your big girl panties on. For the men out there she says, “step up and be the man”. Carla shares a story of a man who disempowered his wife right in front of her, and how it created a trigger inside of her. She encourages men to stop taking your girl's power away by questioning her all the time. ___________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now. From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcas

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla is alone in the studio discussing how so many people over her lifetime have tried to quiet her. Now that she has found her voice, she won’t be silent and she teaches her daughters the same. The lessons we teach our kids aren't always the easy ones, but they are necessary. It takes baby steps and some toughness to raise a confident child; and even more so a confident young woman. When women rise up and use their voice, men get nervous; so get loud and never be silent. __________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demys

Sometime a womans passion for what she wants can be intense and people view it as her being crazy. A recent incident with Carla and Az, reminded her of this. Carla thinking Az forgot their anniversary, caused her to give him a little attitude, when she had the date wrong by one day. Carla from the beginning told AZ she didn't like the romantic gesture of roses, but now she wants him to show up like that, but it doesnt work that way. Couples change, mature and want more as the years pass; it's up to you to know what you want, then go after that, and communicate that to your partner. ______________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. W

In this episode of Do the Work, for years AZ and Carla struggled with the roles they held in their relationship. Until you are honest and understand, trust and respect your partner in their role, you will never be on the same page. Marriages can suffer when you are both holding each other back, and not having your spouses back. Define the roles in your marriage and then communicate what that is; life and business will become a lot easier when the battle for the Gate is in the hands of the Gatekeeper, and the Leader takes the helm. _______________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we h

In this episode of Do the Work, getting comfortable in your relationship can happen over time causing a breakdown in communication. Finding a place for honesty with your partner even if it brings conflict will eventually cause growth. Focusing on what your spouse needs to change to make it work isn't your concern. Look within yourself and ask the tough questions to begin the change in you, which can lead your partner down the same path. _______________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now. From business to pers

In this episode of Do the Work, when a married couple that catches Carla’s eye while shopping, reminds her of how far she has come in her relationship with AZ, the couple were taken back to a time when Carla was not empowered. As she readies for her event coming up next month, AZ encourages all women to take that step to propel their lives forward. Carla being all in, every day, is what pushes AZ in all areas of his life to keep moving upward. Don't wait for your spouse's approval or permission to be who you want to be; it only leads to eventual destruction of your relationship. Men when your wife gets empowered, you better step up because she will rise with or without you. ___________________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla are in the studio and discussing sexless marriages. Has the passion with your partner gone to the wind? The couple had their share of ugly times and would only connect intimately if they were drinking. Making your spouse feel sorry for you, using guilt or even using sex as a tool of leverage, are all signs of trouble. You need to be able to change for things to change; it isn't easy but necessary. Stop trying to fix your marriage or end your marriage; realize that there is something within yourself that needs fixing. Mediocrity in marriage, your body, and your business are not okay; you need to level up in every area of your life. ___________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with yo

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ is in the studio solo to talk to his boys about Carla and her upcoming Women's Only Event. If you want your woman to start showing up powerfully, quit trying to make her happy. It is your job to be the best you to show up in your marriage and business. It is her job to make herself happy, be empowered and find her voice. This conference is for every woman, and it will improve your relationship. Life is powerful when there are no limits on the parameters of what you can accomplish as individuals and bring into the relationship. _____________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the le

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla talk about the low blows that can happen in an argument between couples. When we know all the ins and outs of someone, it is easy to go for the jugular to get the quick results. Knowing what is off limits and knowing what triggers you can bring peace more rapidly to an otherwise hotbed of discontent. When a simple conversation goes ugly, look for the underlying problem. There is something else there and the most natural person to blame is your spouse. _______________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla would like to dedicate this Podcast to her Daughters. She has created a lot of content for her daughters their whole lives, by her actions. Never apologize for being a powerful woman, never submit to a man; speak for other women and be their backbones. There are thousands of men who try to keep her down and the number of women who fucking hate her; double that, and that's how many people love Carla. There are a lot of people who will not like you, but keep creating; they aren't ready for you, just like they weren't ready for Carla. When you doubt and question yourself read everything that was said about your Mom and what she rose above. Don't fear change, because change is beautiful. Go out there and lead and follow the example. This message is for every woman; what are you leaving behind for your daughters and other women? Stop believing you need a man to create, be a voice in this world and go up against the man; this is not his world. Let your fire explode! ___________

In this episode of Do The Work, Az and Carla have discovered their growth not just as individuals but as parents. Changing the patterns that you blame on others for your finances, your health, and your business is crucial to your success as a person and a parent. Giving your kids the tools to identify what will trigger them and give them the permission and the tools to overcome it. Whether you are going for something big, it's what we decide to go through at that moment, and asking yourself the right questions will propel you where you are destined to be. Passing your growth onto the next generation is your responsibility.; take control of your thoughts and own them. _______________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you ou

In this episode of Do the Work, Az and Carla the couple share with their listeners about the ups and downs of being in business with your spouse. Roles at home don't necessarily carry over into the workplace, and vice versa. Setting firm boundaries and clear guidelines won't make things perfect but will push you forward towards success. Treat your spouse like an equal to give them the confidence to show up like a boss. You will never have a more loyal and honest person to have your back. _______________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the jou

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how when your spouse feels down, you should also. Or should you? Trying to entice your partner into an argument when you are not up to par, is just a form of sabotage. Recognizing that your spouse is being triggered by something and stepping back is a form of growth. When you do this you will be able to connect in your marriage at a deeper level. ________________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now. From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers i

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how entitlement in your relationship can lead to conflict; Spending your time trying to figure out what may be bothering your spouse, when all they need is space is a slippery slope. Give your partner that space to figure out what is triggering them, instead of mirroring their anger. When you step back, the real trigger will disappear and so will the target on your head. _______________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now. From business to personal, the DO T

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla addresses how parenting is hard, and judgemental; People are always shaming other parents. The pressure of the perfect first day social media post, kids perfectly dressed standing in front of a chalkboard announcing the excitement of the day. The reality; juggling the house, job, school shopping,doctors appointments, figuring out the scheduling challenges;the hustle getting ready for school. Don't judge a parent that works thinking they are only in 50%, thinking you are better because you stay home and have it all going on. Don’t assume that because there are 2 parents in the home, the parent running around has a partner, and helper. Doesn't make either parent bad, we are all just facing challenges parents do; but tend to always fall on one parent, whether they work or not. That working parent is already dealing with the guilt of having a career; they don't need the struggle of your judgement. Parenting is hard, but it's worth it; don’t be ashamed of your reality. _______

In this episode of Do The Work, AZ and Carla are in the studio discussing Trolling. A recent run-in with an internet troll has given Carla the ability to exercise her power and show that you shouldn't mess with a strong woman. If you are obsessed with bringing others down, expending all of your energy on negativity, you risk running into that individual who will stop you in your tracks. Focus your time and effort on fixing your insecurities and issues, and keep your fucking opinions to yourself. Don’t give others the satisfaction of drawing you down to their level. Stop suppressing, delaying and looking for acceptance. Steamroll that shit and move forward. _______________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla is solo in the studio and ready to get started. Shame is conditioned and comes out from somewhere in our lives; It overtakes us. Shame caused Carla to be hateful, because of jealousy, and comparison; we create the stories of shame. We show up this way in our relationship and our business because we cannot overcome shame. Why do you feel shame? Are you asking yourself the powerful questions? Can you feel the success? Are you living in the space that was created by shame? You need to dig deep, deep enough to find the source; quit creating the stories in your head to validate the shame. Free yourself, gain power and feel amazing by releasing yourself from everything that is stopping you from being you. ____________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take con

In this episode of Do the Work, AZ and Carla discuss how significant changes are coming their way and to this podcast. Although being pumped up for what is happening, they need not get overwhelmed and focus on the small tasks each day. Putting in the reps every day has put them where they are. Looking back at where they were, fuels them forward to be where they want to be. ____________________________  Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now. From business to personal, the DO THE WORK podcast covers it all. To learn more visit ww

In this episode of Do the Work, Carla is in the studio alone using those pipes God gave her to share her story about all the Reps in her life that she has done to get to where she is. Carla chose to be all in and if you want to be all in you need to be all in. She has suffered through failed businesses and failing marriage, and she shared it all and by doing that removed all the fear. Don't let people live your happiness for you. __________________________ Welcome to the DO THE WORK podcast. Each week we will bring you the foundational principles needed to navigate through the obstacles and opportunities of life. We are vulnerable and raw in every episode. We never sugarcoat what it takes to take control of your life and live a life worth living. We share with you our successes and our defeats. We unpack how we have mastered prosperity in business and beyond. We share the lessons and stories of the journey we have been on and we demystify the journeys we are embarking on now. From business to personal, the DO