Love & Livelihood With Folashade A. Butler

In this episode, Folashade chats with Jaida Pervis, Relationship Expert and Matchmaker, about the importance of clearing out the pressures you and others create for you to get in, be in, and create relationships. Jaida says that creating timelines can ruin the possibilities of having healthy relationships because it adds unnecessary pressures to you and your (potential) partners. Instead, she encourages you to think about relationships in a different way. Listen to learn more! Key points: - Men want to be loved and lifted - Women want to be provided for - Social media can add more pressures in our dating culture - Each person has to determine if they are doing the work to manifest the person that they are looking to connect with - Open communication is always the key - Live your best life and when it’s time, they will know! BAM! Other fun stuff on the episode: - I drop my a couple of my favorite podcasts (Hint: Oprah! Duh.) - And I “invite” the quintessential #lovexlivelihood guest to the guest chair...sort o

In this episode, Celebrity Matchmaker Jasmine Diaz demystifies matchmaking and breaks down why you should be using dating apps (if you're SINGLE!) to find your next date and potentially your next boo!   Sign up for Jasmine's FREE 5-day dating course at www.lovebyJD.com   Pick up the gorgeous and functional Bae Planner at www.baeplanner.com ------ Social everywhere: @lovexlivelihood and @folashadebutler | Email: hi@loveandlivelihood.com Sign up for our #LoveLetter at www.loveandlivelihood.com

In this episode, Avalaura Gaither, Life Coach, Intuitive Consultant, and Keynote Speaker, say's that before you get into another relationship, you absolutely must go through the healing process. She says the best way to do this is to double down on the self-awareness and reflection and identify the patterns you need to avoid and the habits you should continue. Listen to her story and process and what she believes is the real reason behind divorce and how you can avoid it even before you get married. Key takeaways: Heal before dating again Self awareness is critical to the healing process Ask yourself What and who am I attracting into my space? Is there a pattern in the type of person that I attract and is it right for me? What is my contribution to what is happening in my life? Take a listen. Then rate and review this episode. Find Avalaura at www.avalaura.com and follow her on social by typing in “Avalaura”...she says she’s the only one! :) ------- Social everywhere: @lovexlivelihood and @folashadebutl

Jay Hurt starts some overdue conversations with his question, "do women still want to be married?" We talk through his book, the 9 Tenets of a Successful Relationship and he gives us his perspective on whether or not women really want to be wives. Don't worry, I also challenge that question with a question of my own - "do men still want to be husbands?"  Follow Jay Hurt on social media - @jayhurtcoaching and listen to his podcast, Love Notes with Jay Hurt, on soundcloud. Listen to the episode and share your thoughts with me on social. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast.  Key takeaways and recommendations: Be in a relationship for YOU; don't do it for anyone else Be clear about your relationship and your relationship goals; be transparent about what you want and where you want it to go Work-Life Integration is important for sustaining a healthy relationship Book - 9 Tenets of Successful Relationships Book - 5 Love Languages - Singles Edition Social everywhere: @lovexlivelihood and @fo

Yes! A Valentine’s Day BONUS episode!! Every relationship is different in the details, but every relationship is the same at the core. The Butlers are no different. And, by “the Butlers,” I mean me and #husbae. In this episode, we talk about our friends first, lovers later story, the challenges of intercultural dating and marriage, the critical need for a strong support system, and more! Take a listen. Laugh with us. Laugh at us! Then rate and review this episode. Key takeaways: Our “friends first, lovers” later approach Communication in relationships Intercultural dating Meeting the in-laws Building a strong support system Social everywhere: @lovexlivelihood and @folashadebutler | Email: hi@loveandlivelihood.com

Instead of jumping into a relationship, our guest expert, Dominique Clark, shares that the most important thing for you to do is check your self-worth first. On this episode, Dominique shares her how she coaches women to step into their fullness by letting go of people and things that do not serve them and embracing exactly who they are meant to be in the world. Find Dominique at www.dominiqueclark.com and at @iam_dclark on social media Subscribe to her youtube channel here. Follow Folashade @folashadebutler and the podcast at @lovexlivelihood   Visit us at www.lovexlivelihood.com to sign up for our #loveletter and to join the community!

Alex Merritt, The Love Engineer, talks about why communication really is the key in relationships and why chemistry is not. She drops major gems that will help both men and women truly understand how to better understand and communicate with each other. Men and women communicate for different reasons, but both sexes love to talk. What men dont like is criticism. So they may not talk as much or respond as frequently as women would like because they want to avoid feeling like their opinion is not valued by the women in thieir lives. They enjoy talking about things that are of interest to them and that welcome them in and allow them to show some levels of vulnerability Men talk to solve a problem. Women talk to connect. For women, the act of talking is solving the problem; they use talking as a way to build connections; they want men to listen...not fix. Alex’s advice to men is, “listening is fixing”...so listen to your women. Alex’s advice to women is, “tell him why he’s listening.” We are the first generat

On this episode, Folashade breaks down why having non-negotiables is important in any type of relationship and why it's important to NOT negotiate them. Follow Folashade @folashadebutler and @lovexlivelihood on all the socials. Visit our website at www.loveandlivelihood.com to sign up for our #loveletter and to join the community.

On this episode, learn who Folashade A. Butler is and who inspired her to start the Love & Livelihood podcast. She describes her journey as a love and relationships coach, counselor, and speaker and talks about what you can expect from this podcast. Get ready to do more than find balance. Get ready to find yourself!

Love & Livelihood - the podcast is a podcast for the go-getting, love-desiring person trying their best to figure out what "balance" looks like for them. It's for YOU if all you want is to discover true success in love and in life. Folashade A. Butler is a wife, mom, technology consultant, entrepreneur, and speaker so she knows fully well the challenges the everyday go-getter faces in the pursuit of success in life. Meet Folashade here each week to learn more about how to do more than find balance. Meet her here to learn more about how to find yourself...because that's the ultimate goal. This podcast is for you if you are single, married, or somewhere in between and have a goal to achieve success in love and life. Folashade and the L&L guests will share stories, tools, and tips on how to build the life you deserve. Listen each week as she talks about dating, relationships, career, entrepreneurship, and more! For more information, visit us at LoveandLivelihood.com and follow us on Instagram @lovexlivel