Synopsis
BOND, The Brotherhood Organization of a New Destiny, is a nonprofit dedicated to "Rebuilding the Family by Rebuilding the Man," nationally recognized and founded in Los Angeles in 1990 by Jesse Lee Peterson, pastor, counselor, radio & TV host, and author. http://rebuidingtheman.com 800-411-BOND (that's 800-411-2663).
Episodes
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The Act of Speaking Up | Archive 11/28/10
06/11/2024 Duration: 55minWhat are you thankful for? Alive, but with no life? What do you think of the art or act of speaking up? Be led by the Spirit, not thoughts!Archive Sunday Service, November 28, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome * (00:59) What are you thankful for? * (04:49) People who've died… thankful to be alive, with no life? * (12:06) A family that's healing: Most don't. * (17:23) God set us apart… spiritual battle… America * (22:25) JLP: Thankful … * (27:33) Talk without judgment… Thankful for sons, but not wife: Attached * (30:16) The art (or act) of speaking up: Feedback? * (34:41) Speak up without getting nervous… Speaking too much, hurting feelings * (38:28) JLP: The words "speaking up" vs spiritual life… Thinking, opinions…? * (41:19) JLP: Another way of living within… No ego, not to hurt, no feelings * (49:44) Want it? Ego, pride won't put seeking God first: Prayer, Quiet * (52:57) Your opinion doesn't matter. Let go. Let people be. Closing MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsCLI
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Why do you assume people are guilty? | Church 11/3/24
03/11/2024 Duration: 01h58minGossiping, vengeful men with women's nature. Do you have full confidence? Why do you assume people are guilty, rather than presume innocence? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, November 3, 2024 * Did men gossip or take revenge when you grew up? What was Jesus like? Men and women's natures have become one and the same. * Do you have one hundred percent confidence? * Biblical Question: Why don't you presume others innocent unless proven guilty? * Assignment: For one week, shake in your boots, in fear, with nothing to rely on… * ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thursday, Nov 7, 2024, 7 PM at BOND, Los Angeles https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS * (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:02:31) Questions for my dying mother? "Hope"? * (0:11:22) Elections: Don't overreact * (0:12:18) Men gossiping, taking revenge? * (0:22:26) What was Jesus like? * (0:27:59) Men and women's natures the same * (0:33:55) How did this happen? * (0:42:52) Men, you're the light. * (0:49:02) Men, have understanding. * (0:52:
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How Do You Overcome Judgment? | Archive 11/21/10
30/10/2024 Duration: 01h05sReality: I am not God. Fear of speaking up. Judgment: Feeling like nothing. Following the world. "Big Mama" Oprah! Ice cream escape! Archive Sunday Service, November 21, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome * (00:47) Weird: Nothing I planned … Judgmental man * (05:01) What reality is: I am not God * (07:06) Go to your spouse to apologize? * (08:27) Stubborn, judging, identifying with thoughts in "prayer" * (10:00) What should our mindset be? Couldn't speak up to sister * (18:21) Why not have your husband deal with her? * (21:40) Story: Young lady going through Hell. Why don't parents let children suffer? * (24:07) Q: Judgment messes with your life * (31:14) Once-popular guy: God is not with you judging yourself * (35:16) When I felt the pain of nothingness * (36:42) Hearing the word "realize…" won't set you free; can't imagine the change* (42:21) Using things to build "self-esteem": BET show for black women * (45:50) Story: Nice lady called JLP on radio, was angry at Jesse * (46:55) Children of God using
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Why do you need anyone else's approval? | Church 10/27/24
27/10/2024 Duration: 02h10minMost don't want a peaceful life. Fathers and mothers on loss. Why do you need others' approval? Do you return shopping carts? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 27, 2024 TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Welcome * (0:02:06) Happy Halloween? * (0:03:58) Don’t want a peaceful life * (0:17:00) Trucker: Lost son to fentanyl * (0:24:26) Need a girlfriend? * (0:34:48) Late husband at rest; she is not * (0:43:32) Son and mother: prayer, "love" * (1:02:08) What's it like knowing you're so evil? * (1:14:33) Q's: Addicted to thrills? * (1:16:57) Jesus the only Way? * (1:26:47) BQ: Why do you need anyone else's approval? * (1:28:35) Re: Jesus… if you don't know, don't talk about it * (1:32:28) Back to BQ, Donyale, relationships, anger * (1:52:53) Returning shopping carts, thinking you're better * (2:05:50) New BQ; shopping carts; closing CLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the Man LINKSBLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/why-do-you-need-anyone-elses-approval-chu
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Who Are You? | Archive 11/14/10
22/10/2024 Duration: 57minWho are you? A living being. Your emotions and experiences are not you! Are most fathers not lovable? Men and women are in battle! Archive Sunday Service, November 11, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome * (00:59) Who are you? Genesis: A living being, made in His image * (07:02) Westside Pregnancy Center: abortions, fathers, fundraising * (10:56) Men becoming weaker: Love your fathers. "I never knew mine"? * (12:56) We're a living being, not challenges, worries, circumstances, who people say * (13:31) God works through us to inspire, awaken people * (15:19) Many fathers are not lovable? * (17:33) "I wanna leave…" I feel like my answers are judged by you * (19:38) Some fathers are toxic… fathers not lovable? * (25:10) JLP: Love even our enemies: Judging is worse! * (32:44) Men and women: Power struggle. Sex, spiritual battle* (35:19) JLP: Any man wanting sex before marriage is a girl * (37:18) All men and women are lovable. Don't resent them * (37:58) 90-percent don't hate their fathers; they want their
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Why do you criticize yourself and others? | Church 10/20/24
20/10/2024 Duration: 02h05minGet up and walk. Satan: the author of intellectual knowledge. Assignment: Don't judge. Why do you criticize yourself and others? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 20, 2024 TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk… Welcome * (0:02:25) Re: Drug addict woman caller this week * (0:07:55) JLP: blessed. Get up and walk: Face your pain. * (0:24:04) Feedback: Why won't you get up and walk? Raymond… Hassan… * (0:48:43) Amber Alert; No you: Satan, author of intellectual knowledge * (1:00:32) Are you backing off your husband? * (1:15:14) Excited about sharing the truth, "pearls before swine" * (1:18:27) Judgment, the Devil's voice, "disabled," disease, feelings * (1:27:25) Assignment feedback: Judgment * (1:36:09) Story: Bubbly lady realized she’s evil. Assignment… * (1:45:23) BQ: Why do you criticize yourself and others? * (1:53:10) Donyale moving! Store union workers picketing * (1:59:58) New BQ: Why do you need anyone else's approval? Closing CLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble,
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What Causes You to Get Stuck in the Past? | Archive 10/31/10
15/10/2024 Duration: 55minMany who learn the Bible neglect God's living word within. Women reject the order of God! Judgment keeps you stuck in the past! Archive Sunday Service, October 31, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Welcome; Voting; Raymond… patience * (02:16) In PA: Afraid to speak truth; "Bible" vs God's Living Word * (13:43) Story: "Most black men, not worth a dime"? Renewing the mind* (17:48) Meditate on the Bible? Where to find His word? Parents are weak… * (21:12) Story: Praying couple; Husband, God's order: Women's jealousy * (28:32) Promoting women; Catering to enemies? Girl fussing; 1936 Horror * (33:57) Email: Dwelling on the past, thinking it was good. How to stop? * (39:15) "Don't judge good or bad." How to stop thinking about it? * (43:07) Judging as good or bad, you're stuck: Past and future, mind of the Devil * (50:11) Judging the past… Reality hits ego. Stop making decisions and live… MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsCLIPSSee Recent and Archive clips playlists on YouTube, or alt platform
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When was the last time you had a real conversation…? | Church 10/13/24
13/10/2024 Duration: 02h04minMothers and sons hash out their issues. Last time you had a real conversation with another person? Assignment: Don't judge… Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 13, 2024 ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday of the month, Oct 17, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk, Welcome * (0:01:51) Mother and son: Forgive * (0:08:49) Ex-wife runs up medical bills; Mother enables 43yo son * (0:33:11) Mother doesn't know how to let 16yo son go * (0:49:49) Free will? 'Choice' realizing you're wrong: Anger * (1:07:40) Stunned how evil you are* (1:10:38) Working on me: Mother and son. Sister confronts JLP * (1:41:27) Feedback: Don't have to go through emotions, pain * (1:47:14) Biblical Q: Real conversation? * (1:52:57) One-day Assignment: Don't judge… New BQ; closing CLIPS See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube, BitChute, Rumble, Odysee — BOND: Rebuilding the Man LINKS BLOG https://rebuildingtheman.com/when-was-the-last-time-you-ha
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Can You Be Tempted After Being Born Again? | Archive 10/24/10
09/10/2024 Duration: 57minIs life happening for you? Good all the time? Stop judging. No expectations. In thought and emotion you're tempted by the Devil. Forgive.Archive Sunday Service, October 24, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro/Welcome* (00:42) BOND 20th anniversary event: Thank you! Amazin'... * (04:01) Life is happening! No? * (06:58) Life is not good all the time? * (11:32) Ladies share… If you want to be free, stop judging * (16:01) Judging condemns you: Eating; A friend down and out; Reality * (20:19) Never, ever, ever have expectations. Wait and see. Free. No opinion. Accept. * (26:09) As a man thinketh… Judging, resenting Christians. Depression. * (30:54) Judging Jesse, "a house negro" … Others on judging… * (35:01) Comes from sin, hating parents. Born again: New nature * (39:02) Lady: Tempted by the Devil. Fools can't argue by themselves. * (42:09) Overcome anger: Admit you have it, and forgive… Franky… * (48:16) A spiritual change God makes happen… Christians judging sinners * (54:20) A friend doesn't speak up, gets mad. *
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Do you recognize a wave of pain that overtakes you? | Church 10/6/24
06/10/2024 Duration: 01h48minWait like the Israelites in the desert. Do you love your enemies? Can you live a double life? Take the wave of pain! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 6, 2024 Prior Biblical Question: Do you recognize a wave of pain that overtakes you? New Biblical Question: When was the last time you had a real conversation with a human being? TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk… Welcome * (0:01:55) Story: Israelites out of Egypt * (0:12:44) Lesson: Endure to the end * (0:20:10) Wanting another person to change; Consulting with the mind * (0:29:43) Q: Do you love your enemies? * (0:37:02) Q: Love enemies? (Documentary, "poor" white country people: Same problem!) * (0:49:12) No enemies… fun * (0:52:50) Q: Consult with your mind? (God tried to deliver you but you won't wait.) * (0:59:51) No grace for yourself, listening to thoughts. Fall off the cliff, not listening to thoughts * (1:10:43) Possible to live a double life? * (1:17:44) Married? No. Engaged twice: Got the ring back! * (1:19:18) Biblical Q: Do you recogn
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The world says tell it; God says stop it | Church 9/29/24
29/09/2024 Duration: 02h12minElon Musk's father: Do not tell a woman your problems, nor if you cheat. Have no leader. Anger is evil. Thoughts bring collisions. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 29, 2024 * Elon Musk's father, as opposed to complaining men… * A man should never tell a woman his problems, and if he cheats, he should never tell. * Don't have another person lead you. * You cannot manage anger. It's evil. Real life documentary horror stories… * Biblical Question: Why is your life one collision after another? ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thurs, Oct 3, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Start, Welcome * (0:04:35) Raymond: black representation in media * (0:05:51) Elon Musk daddy: Men never complained or cried * (0:15:57) Don't tell your wife if you cheat? * (0:27:11) Never complained. Women concerned about getting cheated on? * (0:43:13) Never heard men gossip. No forgiveness from wife. * (0:48:40) Don't cheat. But if you do, don't tell it. Don't do it again.
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All Weeping is Complaining; All Complaining, Accusing | Church 9/22/24
22/09/2024 Duration: 02h08minJudging Diddy? All weeping is complaining; all complaining, accusing. You judge according to the flesh. Are you one with yourself? Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 22, 2024 * Did you judge Diddy? You'd do the same. * Does God judge you? Is there anything good about you? * Have you noticed all weeping is complaining, and all complaining is accusing?* Jesus said in John 8: 15-16 — 15 You judge according to the flesh; I judge no one… 16 Yet even if I do judge, my judgment is true, for it is not I alone who judge, but I and the Father who sent me. * Biblical Question: Are you one with yourself? TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk* (0:04:03) Sad life… * (0:06:38) Diddy: Would you do the same? Did you judge him? * (0:21:47) JLP: Every human being is Diddy. * (0:27:04) Disagree? Do you judge? Does God judge you? * (0:37:25) Anything good about you? * (0:43:03) All weeping is complaining, and all complaining, accusing. * (0:44:12) Feel for brother, others suffering. Making them worse! * (0:5
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Is Evil Being Made to Appear as Good? | Archive 11/7/10
18/09/2024 Duration: 57minThe tempter tempts you to judge: It's not you! Oprah promoted homosexuality and men revealing personal traumas to the world, degrading men! Archive Sunday Service, November 7, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Welcome* (01:12) Why preachers take advantage of congregations: Addicted * (06:00) JLP: What if I had a life, but forget, and just stand here? Fellowship * (08:02) Lady: Felt God. Man told me he wanted to cheat. Judgment * (10:47) JLP story: Time change, Devil wanted to judge man who didn't pick up * (15:03) Judging: The tempter makes you think it's you! Decisions * (19:34) Liberal friends: Can't judge the liberals. Amen corner: No growth * (26:53) I'm like my mother, I like to make people mad * (28:46) Oprah interview: Ricky Martin "came out of the closet" * (34:44) JLP: If they admit they have a problem, asking for help * (36:32) Oprah, Tyler Perry, men tell boyhood trauma: Okay? * (41:52) JLP: Never talk to women about your personal issues * (49:22) Nothing a man can get from a woman? Christ was never weak *
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Midterms! Afraid not to trust thoughts? | Church 9/15/24
15/09/2024 Duration: 02h16minDo you tip? Midterms! Who are you? Why are you afraid not to trust your thoughts? "Am I shutting myself off from love?" Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 15, 2024 * Tipping culture, bad service, and customer attitude * Midterms! Who are you? Do thoughts ever go away? * Biblical Question: Why are you afraid not to trust your thoughts? * Is God in control of the affairs of your life? * Assignment: Distrust the thought. Let it overwhelm you. Feel the pain. * New Biblical Question idea: Are you one with yourself? ANNOUNCEMENT: Women's Forum third Thursday, Sept 19, 2024, 7 PM at BOND https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/ TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Welcome. Trend: Women not shaving* (0:07:10) Profiling, service industry, black people tipping * (0:19:11) Midterm test: Who are you? * (0:23:36) Do thoughts ever go away? Who are you? * (0:29:50) BQ: Why afraid not to trust thoughts? * (0:36:49) BQ: More answers … "F" grade * (0:47:26) BQ… Is seeing thoughts the same as feeling thoughts? * (0:52:45) BQ… "I am
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Have You Ever Felt Disrespected? | Archive 10-10-10
10/09/2024 Duration: 54minDon't judge as good or bad! Do you get upset when "disrespected"? You have the wrong identity! Look within, not the outside! Archive Sunday Service, October 10, 2010 Matthew 23: 25 'Alas for you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of cup and dish and leave the inside full of extortion and intemperance. 26 Blind Pharisee! Clean the inside of cup and dish first so that it and the outside are both clean. 27 'Alas for you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs that look handsome on the outside, but inside are full of the bones of the dead and every kind of corruption. 28 In just the same way, from the outside you look upright, but inside you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Welcome — BOND 20th anniversary * (02:49) Assignment: Don't judge. Gardeners… racist? * (08:28) Get upset when disrespected? Hake, Movies, "Speaking up" * (13:31) Disrespecting my accomplishments, others… * (19:00) JLP: If I felt disrespected… Judging, "identi
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Why are you afraid not to trust thoughts? | Church 9/8/24
08/09/2024 Duration: 02h57sGov't are people; people are evil! Don't trust them! Why are you afraid not to trust thoughts? Do you know the truth? No one does! Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 8, 2024 TIMESTAMPS * (0:00:00) Welcome… * (0:02:06) Pay attention this election * (0:03:59) Mass shooting: Should father be arrested? * (0:29:14) Arrest father? Joel and staff… * (0:37:29) JLP: Horrible mistake to trust the govt * (0:47:04) JLP: Govt will take your house. Slave to thoughts, govt * (0:55:24) JLP: Human nature, titles, govt power, lock up guns? * (1:03:53) Feedback: Parents' responsibility, kids, sugar cane, govt * (1:14:54) Q: Why are you afraid not to trust thoughts? 16yo, couple… * (1:28:26) Young lady with boyfriend * (1:42:41) Back to Q: Notice you’re afraid not to trust the thoughts? * (1:48:44) Assignment: Distrust the thought, feel the pain * (1:55:36) BQ: Do you know the truth? What is it? Raymond Q * (1:57:13) JLP on BQ: None of us know the truth. Closing CLIPS See Recent and Archive clips on BOND YouTube,
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What Is Your Responsibility in Speaking Up? | Archive 10/3/10
04/09/2024 Duration: 59minLife without judgment: Speaking up from Heaven vs from Hell. How do whites help blacks? Tell the truth in the situation. Archive Sunday Service, October 3, 2010 Isaiah 30: 15 — "…In returning and rest shall ye be saved; in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength…" TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome * (00:51) Assignment: Decisions, planning. Conscious life without judging * (05:26) Q: Where's the responsibility in speaking up to others? * (16:33) Whites not telling blacks the truth! Let a whole race of people go! * (26:30) Black friends? Try telling the truth. * (33:05) Christian lady lost children to college; Bill Cosby not "all the way" for truth * (38:07) Lost a race of people, dying out: Extreme? * (46:01) God is Light, protection. Wake up, Christians, men, blacks, whites. * (48:47) White man on the black community; Wake up, help others * (55:23) How do white people help black people? Isaiah 30: 15 MUSIC: "Changes" (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright LightsCLIPSSee Recent and Archive cli
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Do you want to be different? | Church 9/1/24
01/09/2024 Duration: 02h14minDo you see how evil you are? Never argue. Do you want to be different? God is not in control of your daily life. Evil is. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 1, 2024 Last week's Assignment: For one week, the only evil I want you to think about is your own. Last week's Biblical Question: Do you want to be different? New Assignment: Completely surrender to thoughts. Feel it. Take the pain. New Biblical Question: Do you know the truth? What is it? TIMESTAMPS* (0:00:00) Small talk, Welcome * (0:02:12) Alex on a bike! * (0:06:35) Assignment: Donyale's dog car, She's wicked inside … * (0:15:06) Colin: God doesn't hear those prayers. Why so deeply into hell? * (0:23:26) A free man never thinks. Different situation, same problem/solution * (0:29:11) How do you lay weapons down? Man's mother-in-law problems * (0:33:48) Assignment: Call no one. Evil at breakfast. Don't toy with evil. … * (0:39:18) Don't toy with evil * (0:44:18) Assignment: Texas gal, beta Muslim, irritated at the baby … * (0:50:44) Raymo
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Where Does Pain Come From? | Archive 9/26/10
28/08/2024 Duration: 57minWhy do we have emotional pain? Do you pray every morning? Pray without words. Life unfolds! You store up treasures on earth. Archive Sunday Service, September 26, 2010 TIMESTAMPS* (00:00) Intro / Welcome * (00:48) 20th Anniversary * (02:17) Anybody have a life? * (02:42) Q: Where does pain come from? * (05:23) Not necessary to suffer past this moment * (06:19) … Emotional pain: Not doing God's will? * (10:50) Ego pain… Do you pray every morning? * (16:16) I pray every morning… Not my thoughts * (18:27) Life unfolds like I can't imagine. Old things passed away. * (21:59) Not praying for things: Holy Spirit intercedes, not with words, vanity * (26:00) Your will be done * (27:31) But that's a setup! Know God early in the morning * (28:17) Feedback: Fighting, struggling. Handling life in prayer * (30:56) Forgive. Be still and know God. Most don't want to change. * (32:18) "I do my own prayer." God's prayer. * (33:04) "You have not because you ask not." Preachers, Asking for stuff * (37:28) Teach your children to
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What's going on on Earth? | Church 8/25/24
25/08/2024 Duration: 02h09minPreacher's daughter, "heroin addict." Does your future look bright? BQ: What's going on on Earth? Feel hopelessness, helplessness. Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, August 25, 2024 ASSIGNMENT: The only evil you think about: Your own. For one week! New Biblical Question: Do you want to be different? TIME STAMPS* (0:00:00) Start… * (0:03:06) Will she obey? Welcome, first-timers * (0:07:13) Preacher's daughter: Do you believe you're good? * (0:11:19) Her car was hit * (0:14:56) Does your future look bright? Allahu Akbar person… * (0:17:54) 'I was a heroin addict.' Did you let go of the anger? * (0:27:48) 'Heroin addict': Forgive parents. It was never you. * (0:36:50) Biblical Question: What's going on on Earth? * (0:43:02) BQ… Listening to the Devil … Divine order? … * (0:54:52) BQ… Mimi's moving! * (1:00:44) Is it OK to cry? * (1:06:11) Why Jesus wept; Most cry for the thrill… * (1:08:27) BQ… Are you getting better? … * (1:14:24) JLP on BQ: Catch the Devil controlling you * (1:28:46) JLP: Setup: putting w