T&a Talk Sex

Due to a technical glitch (damn those internet elves!) last week's show cut out at 10 minutes.  Sorry about that!  It was such a good show and we really want you to hear the whole talk given many listerners have written in requesting this topic, so we're repsoting the FULL episode this week.  Thanks for your patience!  T had so many conversations with distressed husbands, and mothers who also felt anxiety about their low sex drive, that she sought out some answers from mothers Heather Brooker of Motherhood in Hollywood podcast and Sheri Winston who have made it through the sex drought. Sheri Winston is also a sex expert-midwife/nurse turned sexuality teacher of Intimate Arts Center.  There's good news, and lots of insight into the actual pregnancy process, the sensual pleasures of it, and how we can still maintain intimate, sensual connection, even after the pregnancy.  How can we best stay connected with our partners and feel appreciated on both ends? These ladies know best!   Don't miss our discount Promo

T had so many conversations with distressed husbands, and mothers who also felt anxiety about their low sex drive, that she sought out some answers from mothers Heather Brooker of Motherhood in Hollywood podcast and Sheri Winston who have made it through the sex drought. Sheri Winston is also a sex expert-midwife/nurse turned sexuality teacher of Intimate Arts Center.  There's good news, and lots of insight into the actual pregnancy process, the sensual pleasures of it, and how we can still maintain intimate, sensual connection, even after the pregnancy.  How can we best stay connected with our partners and feel appreciated on both ends? These ladies know best!   Don't miss our discount Promo Code 'TATALKSEX' for our newest sponsors, the all natural skin care product, BIOCLARITYthat we share in the middle of the episode, either! Episode 135, Because Sex isn't Ever Just About Sex. Find A's sensual massage videos here: www.stephanieallen.com/massage  

ASK T&A! T of T&A discusses our listeners' burning questions and biggest problems with guest hosts, Lindsey and Krista from Almost 30 Podcast.  T shares fun tweets from our listeners, all three ladies talk about their own greatest life lessons, then launch into the important questions from our guests! Will the older guy commit to her with all of his post-divorce baggage? and What she can do to show him she's a great partner he can trust! What happens when he cums inside you withouth asking? Do you have to have the safe sex talk after the fact? AND UBER lands in hot water when Susan J. Fowler shares her personal experience of gender discrimination and sexual harrassment while working there for 1 year.  The show gets deep when Krista discusses her own experience with sexual harrassment in the workplace, what happened next, and how we as women can protect ourselves from victimization (how men can play a part in shaping a safer work environment for their favorite women too!)  Don't miss our discount PROMO

T of T&A (Christina Hepburn) chats openly with Jacq Jones, about her experiences in reproductive health care and what led her to opening a sex shop.  Jacq Jones is a passionate advocate for a sex positive world, radical consent, sex ed, safer sex and reproductive health care. She has worked in sex education and reproductive health care since 1994. She is the owner of Sugar, a sex positive, education focused, lesbian owned, multi-gender operated sex toy store in Baltimore and online at SugarTheShop.com. *Tune in for a discount promo code to her sex shop*! Ep.133, Because sex isn't ever just about sex! 

How do we avoid the Valentine's Day cliches, and create an authentic experience your partner will love? VDay is an opportunity to really say "I appreciate you".  T shares our listeners' stories about the best thing they ever did or received on Valentine's Day, and then T chats with Amy Weissfeld (JoyfulSelfLove.com) and Jackie Meldrum (MakingYourOwnBed.com), 2 accomplished sex coaches, about improving your game with a lover, and walk us through what they teach in their Master Lover Mindset course.  Truly riveting! As we all know, practice makes perfect! You can find A's sensual massage videos at www.StephanieAllen.com/massage and we share a 10% promo code + free lubricant for the SugartheShop.com owned by next week's guest, Jacq Jones, in case you want to spruce up your game on VDAY! 

A lot of women don't say no to sex to avoid conflict, or because they actually like the guy and don't want to hurt his feelings.  And a lot of guys are completely unaware they've crossed a line because she didn't say no and seemed into it -so why would they think anything was wrong?   It doesn't take a full-on rape experience for a woman to feel compromised and unfortunately, the fact is compromised sex happens ALL THE TIME.  T&A share their most recent experiences that both, coincidentally, happened to leave them feeling objectified and pretty shitty.  And if T&A can get in that situation- anyone can.  In this must-listen episode, T&A talk with Emily Best and Erica Anderson, co-creators of F*ck Yes, a series that shows ladies and gents how to say F*ck Yes to sex, to break down how our society's approaches and underlying beliefs around sexuality can make even the nicest of guys- actually kind of rapey.  The ladies share for they guys what goes on in their heads that puts them on guard and makes th

It’s Ask T&A day, where listeners write in with their questions.  On this month’s episode: ‘Help! We’ve just moved in and can’t stop fighting, does this mean we’re incompatible?’ Then, ‘My girlfriend says she’s too stressed for sex.  I wanna be there for her, but this is getting frustrating, what do I do?’

Sex is a breeding ground for embarrassing moments (no pun intended). Bodily fluids, acrobatic moves, feelings, uncontrollable urges- Anything can happen!  So Tom McLoughlin ((Director Jayson 6, Date with and Angel) and Peter Desberg Phd (clinical psychologist) created The Bad Sex Manual to help us get through the stickiest of situations when having sex with someone new by adding in a little humor to the situation.      

In a rousing discussion with Natasha Chandel from the podcast ‘Kinda Dating’, the ladies weigh in on women’s reactions to Trump by trading in their long locks for flat tops.  Is it the end of femininity or just rebellion? Plus some interesting angles on the meaning of hair and how it may affect relationships.  Then the girls discuss the emergence of blow job cafes serviced by female robots.  Be sure to check out Natasha’s podcast @kindadating  

Happy New Year!  It's 2017 and T&A love to take stock of an entire year that has now passed, by looking at what they've learned from all their adventures with the opposite sex.  Youtuber Trisha Hershberger from 'The Naked Truth' and actor/comedian Sina Amedson join in this round table chat as the group shares their biggest take aways from love in 2016, and what they will do differently in the brand-spanking new year to come.  Listen in and get ready to take stock of your own 2016 love-life learns and join T&A to set an intention for 2017.  

On this month’s episode of ‘Ask T&A’, the girls help a fellow sista’ overcome her fear of the texture of cum so she can happily finish her guy off.  Then a young woman wants to know, ‘how long do I wait for him to get over his ex?’ Plus, after twenty years of marriage, what do you think of a man wearing women’s panties?  T&A share their insights.  

We hear a lot about what can go wrong when infants and kids don't ge enough touch, but what about adults?? T&A talk with professional cuddlers, Jean Franzblau and Fei Wyatt (creators of Cuddle Sanctuary in Los Angeles), about the epidemic of no touch in a digital world, our mindset of scarcity, and the negative effects on our health and emotions, and how you can get more non-sexual touch and intimacy in your everyday life, especially as we head into the holidays with ...perhaps those family members who don't always show us the affection we need.  Jean and Fei also offer solutions for creating more touch amongst friends and family. 

A has always been  a huge advocate for good posture- because it's HOT!!  In this informative episode, T&A talk about how important posture has been in selecting their mates :) Plus, they share their own journeys through poor posture, and then chat with CEO & Co-Founder of Lumo Lift technologies, Monisha Perkash, to get the inside scoop on how important good posture is.  Monisha shares bad posture trends in men versus women, what may be the cause behind it, the horrible affects of bad posture and how her device can help you fix it!  If this episode doesn't make you sit straighter, nothing will!  

What's the deal with fetishes?  Where do they come from, and do they need to be overcome? T&A get inside the mind of a fetishest with a raw and insightful conversation with master storyteller Dylan Brody, who's opened for Dave Sedaris and has been featured on NPR, when he shares the riveting story about the origin of his own fetish- for handicapped women.  Dylan shares what life is like having a fetish, how it's impacted his marriage and wether or not fetishes need to be fixed.

T&A weigh in on audience's questions: In this month's episode of T&A's advice show, how to rebound after a bad first date (on election night!), best car sex positions?  And can too much masturbation hurt your sex life??  

It's Thanksgiving week, which means time for T&A to reflect on all the things they're grateful for this year- the not so suitable for the dinner table things.  Lora Somoza from the podcast, 'Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza' joins this roundtable chat which sparks scintilating conversation on vibrators, masturbation, their body issues growing up as kids and even some deeper family issue stuff.  Fun and entertaining, yet always deep, Happy Thanksgiving from T&A!

Inspired by the lush, sexy, and joyous erotic thriller, The Handmaiden, directed by Park Chan-wook, T&A invite Carlisle Forrester (comedian and podcast cohost of 2 Girls, 1 Guy) to discuss the eroticism featured in the film, and what it says about women, our ability to get turned on by each other and our resistance to diving down under.  Then all 3 ladies speak freely about their own sexual encounters with other women, and what we learned about ourselves through it. 

Let's be honest, all this 'Consent is Sexy' talk... isn't really that sexy.  But when T&A's friend Dave Booda from the podcast 'Dude Panel' wrote an article sharing his experience of being acused of rape from a lover he thought he had consentual, awesome sex with, it was clear the issue needed addressing for even the most well-intentioned guy.  He thought this chick was totally on board... so how do you know she really does want to have sex with you?  T&A have a lively discussion around Dave's article sharing their own experiences and how at the root of all this consent talk is good old fashioned seduction.  Listen in to find out how to get her begging for you so you never have to wonder if she really does want to have sex with you.  Here's a link to Booda's article published in the Good Men Project.  http://boodaism.com/permission/

Do we bale on our relationships too soon?  Have you ever wondered if maybe you would be better off if you just had some patience and stayed with that person? The idea of sticking through a relationship come hell-or-highwater has become somewhat of a relic.  When an 'insurmountable' obstacle comes along, we chalk it up to incompatability, and skip along to find someone more up our alley now that we're wiser for it.  But is this a modern mindset that keeps us from reaping the rewards of a long-term,  investment?  Should we listen to our grandparents?? In this week's episode, 'T' drags herself from the dredges of her period malaise to share her thoughts as to why it might not have been the wisest decision to leave her most recent long-term partner...  but then again, would she be the person she is today if she hadn't?  It is a rousing topic and lively debate this week as the girls dig in...

It's Ask T&A Day!  In this month's episode, find out what causes a red, irrated and smelly penis, but the scarier thing is how unnoticed this goes by most men!  Then, T&A dive in and give an incredibly detailed play by play of how to make a girl cum from oral sex, and more specifically, them :)  All the insider tips and tricks are in this one! Happy listening...