T&a Talk Sex

A explores a mansion party and hooks up with a married couple while T tries to grow some balls to make the first move. On #Trending, a new documentary Monogamish is set for 9/2015 release featuring Dan Savage, Chris Ryan and more taking a look at how we love in the modern day.  Meanwhile Purvi Patel is caught in the Modern Witch Hunt and millenials are all for contraception... but are we fighting the right fight?

It's not that your sex drive isn't there - it might not be lighting up due to the backwards way we understand women's desire and arousal cycle. This is a must listen!! Plus, Emily talks about the need to get over our cultural shame around sex because it's killing our desire! Emily Nagoski is author of Come As You Are: The New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life and blogs at TheDirtyNormal.com

T&A unlock the mysteries of our pleasure chemical with guest, Susan Kuchinskas, author ofThe Chemistry of Connection - the science behind oxytocin in our bodies,  and its implications for us as social beings, Is monogamy natural or a social construct? Plus, how our behavioral patterns & the way we love are shaped as early as the first time we breast feed, and how can we adapt to be better at loving.  The good news is we're pretty good at learning & evolving!

a.k.a. Eating Out, Muff Diving or any other Euphemism you prefer! T&A talk honestly with comedian, Brigitte Dow (queer POV) and cinematographer, Brendan Swift (male POV) on the art of cunnilingus, and the complicated relationship we have with it.  What are common stigmas about hygiene and why? Can diet improve taste down there? And ladies, if a man wants to dive, don't be your own worst enemy by getting in your head! Learn a few tips & truths along the way. 

T&A talk latest trending topics: Emily Nagoski's NY Times article, Nothing is Wrong with Your Sex Drive, and ladies, ain't no shame in arousing your desire the way you want - research that even if it means watching your kind of , a vibrator with a facetime camera - say what?, and why we should have sex before marriage! 

T&A talk with sociologist Chauntelle Tibbals, author of "Exposure: A Sociologist Explores, Sex, Society and Adult Entertainment" about her research in the industry. If you have any judgements and concerns about the effects of (as A does), listen in as Dr. Chauntelle reports back from deep inside 's world and offers the inside scoop to help shed light on all our misconceptions, including the ill-use of you and how, and why, we need to develop our palette.

T&A talk with somatic sex educator and relationship coach Charlie Glickman, co-author of “The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure” on masculinity in the modern day and prostate pleasure- our resistance to getting it, our resistance to giving it and how to make it the hottest (and most pleasurable) thing you’ve ever done in the bedroom. Show Notes What is Somatic Sex Education?  (26:09/30:32) Just as in all other areas of our lives, our sexual tastes change as we get older. (27:20) So many of us tune out or ‘go inside our heads’ during sex-that will inhibit the experience you are able to have. (31:05) How can working with a Somatic Sex Educator be a totally different experience than exploring sexuality with your partner?  (32:25) When speaking on Masculinity, Charlie starts with a brainstorm exercise that asks the group to describe the aspects of a ‘Real Man’.   (33:10) Over the many years he’s been doing this exercise across all spectrums of society, the results are pretty consistent regardless of

T&A watch #50shadesofgrey and report back with BDSM expert Jean Franzblau Jean Franzblau who explains what makes Anastasi and Christian tick and reveals the ins and outs of the BDSM world.  Plus, how to safely get into your own #50shadesofgrey life and resources galore on where to find your own dominant, submissive and play dungeon.  

‘A’ shares the ins and outs getting her first ‘Sexological Body Work’ session and then the girls talk with Veronica Monet, a former Courtesan of 14 years who made $20k a date!  Veronica, author of ‘Veronica Monet’s Sex Secrets of Escorts: Tips from a Pro’ shares her fascinating journey through the sex industry, along with some of her insightful discoveries into sex and intimacy only a gifted pro could know.  Plus, listen in on her thoughts on sex trafficking, where the real solutions lie, and #sexworkerrights.  A fascinating woman and a must listen!

T&A share their own forays with group sex, then talk with anthropologist Dr. Kate Frank, who submerged herself in researching the world of sex clubs and sex parties to uncover the truth about why we do it… and why we fear it. http://archives.radiotitans.com/TandA/150120_Ep29_PushingBoundariesWithTAndA.mp3

A gets called out on her #vesperstyle vibrator necklace! Then T&A talk with Erika Lyremark, business coach and author of ‘Think Like a Stripper: Business Lessons to up your confidence, attract more clients and rule your market’ about her journey from stripper to international mogul and her veteran’s perspective on the strip club industry and why it may not be so ...

T&A talk with Veronica Monet (www.theshamefreezone.com), veteran escort turned Sexologist, about the new research on female ejaculation- what is it, who can do it and how?  Plus, how to make your anger empower you, your relationship and bring you hotter sex. http://archives.radiotitans.com/TandA/150114_Ep27_PushingBoundariesWithTAndA.mp3

Why do men love it? Why do woman avoid it? T&A talk with C Dexter, a homosexual makeup  artist, about his experience giving and receiving and all the insights and tricks he has to offer. Plus, T&A share how they turned from blowjob prudes to hungry fellatio goddesses and what might be getting in the way of the bliss of the blowjob. http://archives.radiotitans.com/TandA/150107_Ep26_PushingBoundariesWithTAndA.mp3

T&A chat with a panel of filmmakers and comedian, @EdGalvez (www.edgalvez.net, please link), about their craziest ‘meet up’ stories.  Then the gang gets deep in reflection on their lessons learned (and not) from past loves, and how to make the new ones count. http://archives.radiotitans.com/TandA/141217_Ep25_PushingBoundariesWithTAndA.mp3