Get Over Yourself! The Milt n Mia Show's podcast

    After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, then he asks Mia to reach into the hat and giveaway another book, which she does, before Milt mentions today's theme, Promiscuity and girls from broken homes, prompted by an urgent email. Milt speaks about a mice study which essentially revealed that when female mice are raised by fathers and are treated well, they are monogamous, but when no father is around and they are mis-treated, they will mate with whatever males come around indefinitely. Milt, “The study suggests that it's critical for girls how they are raised and if they have a father in their lives. Maybe this explains a lot of present behavior in women.” Mia, “I see their point, but I kind of disagree. Sometimes you have a father but he's just a figure, he isn't present or he's a poor influence. It has a lot to

  After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, which they talk about before Milt mentions today's theme, Rape, both in general and in the context of relationships. Milt reads some research data, stating that, “One third of all American men polled said they would rape if they knew they would get away with it. This suggests rape is fundamental in men, and enjoyable.” Mia, “I don't know if it's always rape. Men are soft now, and what used to be viewed as normal sex is now being defined as rape.” Milt, “Traditionally, men raped as a tool of war, and sociologists suggest rape is a vestige of when men would simply take a woman and impregnate her, and that instinct is still deeply embedded in most men.” Mia, “But some types of sex which once were normal are now called rape, beca

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, which they talk about along with giving some personal insights into what and how they study before Milt mentions today's theme, Death Dying and what it all means. He talks about his loss of his father 1 year ago, along with the melancholy of the season and his mother being recently hospitalized. Milt asks Mia, “How do you view what happens when we die?” Mia, “Just as if it was a dream, suddenly you wake up and there you are. Whatever state you are in when you die, that's where you're going to go, whether it be the light or the darkness, or if you're really attached to your material things, you'll want to stay her with your family and all your things. Once you wake from the dream, it'll be a shock, since so many people tied to earthly things think life ends

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, and they talk about how some people are calling Mia a 'medicine woman' and her feelings about that, before he mentions today's theme,   Making Love versus Having Sex. He reads an email from a woman who wants them to do a show on the differences between making love and having sex, with some advice for her clueless husband. Milt, “Yes, we are doing a show on just that, but as for your clueless husband, I think his problem stems from watching too much porn and thinking that that is making love.” Mia, “To make love, you must be patient and develop all your senses, whereas sex is just a fast release to get rid of your hormones.”     Milt, “People today are not trained in what lovemaking and sexual expression should be.” Mia, &ld

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, before he mentions today's theme, Why are women always feeling unhappy and unsatisfied. Milt, “Not every women feels this but a helluva lot of them that I know say they're depressed, filled with gloom and despair and/or anxiety, and it isn't related to anything, they just don't feel happy. So let's look at the reasons why this is, and I'm calling today's show, 'Mia's 5 reasons why women are always unhappy and what they can do about it'.”     #1: Women have too high expectations of themselves and everyone else. Mia, “Women today are doing too much and don't have enough time for themselves; when in history did the women work outside the house and cook and clean? We are over-loading ourselves with expectations and we want too much.”   &nb

After Milt introduces their New Years show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, before he mentions today's theme, Making New Years resolutions as a couple, then asks Mia why people so quickly break their New Years resolutions, “What is it about making that vow that is so difficult, and why do people give up so quickly?” Mia, “Number One is because people make resolutions beyond their abilities, and people don't believe they can actually achieve them. Usually it's about diet and exercise, and people set too extreme expectations; these changes take time and people get tired and want immediate changes that can't come immediately. Anything you want to achieve takes time and effort, but we are too impatient today, we want everything right now. People should stop and analyze their lives and ask some hard questions: what am I doi

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, then asks Mia, “in the spirit of generosity,” to select 5 names from the hat for a book giveaway, which she does. He then mentions their theme, Christmas and Commercialization and how this 'season of Joy' is, for many people, a season of depression. Milt, “They have no one to celebrate the season with, or they reflect on their loss and are stuck indoors, so what should a person do to overcome these feelings?” Mia, “Turn it around, it's all up to you, though some people enjoy feeling sad and feeling sorry for themselves. If you don't have anybody, go to an old folks' home where they have no one. Gifts don't have to come from the store, you can cook something or take something from your garden to give to a lonely people. Instead of feeling sorry,

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, then says that he will be going solo and there will be a guest author interview with author and radio show host, Leslie Carol Botha, an expert in women's hormonal issues. He then speaks of his book, How High Should I Jump, with its references to dealing with PMS, and says, “I put the onus on we men to do the bulk of the understanding and adjusting during PMS and that means, don't over-react when she's over-reacting.”   He mentions his experiences as a young man dealing with girlfriends and their PMS, “I learned that a woman cannot just 'snap out of it', and I learned the hard way and eventually I figured out women's patterns. The week before her period was not a good time to spring surprises on her!” He the reads an email, from a man who's GF be

After Milt introduces the show, their 50th, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, and which they again talk about certain topics in their Compatibility Checklist. Milt, “Family Involvement: Set limits on family involvement. When you marry a person with a large family, you may also be marrying their vast family and inviting them all into your lives.” Mia, “It's a huge issue, especially in some cultures where they do not know how to separate the family. The idea is to make your own rules and not allowing your family to make your decisions. When you marry someone, you're forming your own family, but when you allow your mother, say, to move in or make your decisions, you're selling yourself out.” Milt, “Time management: Learn to manage the time you have and not wasting it or shutting each other out with trivial activ

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, then introduces their show's theme, women having plastic surgery to keep their men. He then speaks about a set of twins addicted to surgery, before introducing some remarks from a relationship therapist in London, Louise Van Der Velde, who believes women have no one to blame but themselves if their husbands run off with other women because they have gotten out of shape, and women over 40 should have plastic surgery in order to keep their men. Mia, “Yes, we are responsible for what we decide to eat every day and how we exercise.”     Milt reads a couple quotes, 'Men have a right to look elsewhere if their wives or GFs are not in shape'. Mia, “We're more than just bodies, but there's a difference between being a little out of shape and just sloppy;

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, and which Mia comments upon. Milt then introduces the show's theme, The Sugar Daddy and the Hottie, and mentions websites like Sugar Daddy.com and Ashley Madison, where wealthy men can find attractive women to date for a price, and how more of these relationships are sprouting up. Mia, “It's always existed, women have always been willing to serve a rich man. And rich men often need hot sex.” Milt, “Let's talk positive aspects of this relationship, what's good about it?” Mia, “Number One is the money, and the man might be intelligent and the woman can learn a lot from him. He's a father figure and lot of girls need that role in their lives.” Milt, “The negatives?” Mia, “You might fall in love with the man and want him mor

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, before mentioning that he promises to get to all emails that come in and adding they do not do private counseling as several have requested. He then returns to several sections of their recent booklet and its Compatibility Checklist and they go through each section. Mia, “Most people do not know what they want and expect the other person to make them happy. This book brings self-awareness to people and shows them that it's never too late to change; that's what we are here for, to learn and grow, for Life is a process.”     Milt then reads the first section that a couple Must Have/Should Be: Regular Communication. 'Honest talk can get you through any problem. Learn to talk with one another, to share and trust your thoughts with each other, including cha

After Milt introduces the show and says he will be going solo, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, then Milt mentions the upcoming special Veteran's Day interview at the end of the show with Milt's mentor, a battlefield veteran of the Korean War, Demetrius Toteras. Milt then introduces the show's theme, Milt's 5 Tips for Appreciating Women and goes through each tip one by one.     Number One is to stop talking about yourself and learn to put the focus on her. “The key to success with women is to stop all your 'I me my mine' BS and start talking about her and her world; this is not some competition between you, this is about participating and you won't get far if the spotlight is always on you.”     Number Two is to be clean in body and your living space. “Women appreciate cleanliness more than men a

After Milt introduces the show and mentions he will be going solo, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released, then Milt mentions the upcoming interview with Amazon best-selling authors, Saqqarah and Megan, before he introduces the show's theme, people seeking real spiritual nourishment beyond what our traditional religions offer.     He speaks about how people are seeking their own personal brand of spiritual connection with God, and are turning to spiritualism, paganism, tribalism and a whole host of isms that generally stem from the world's oldest cultures and have largely been forgotten in the wake of the 3 big religions. Milt says that people just now discovering spiritual tools are really only 'discovering the wheel', since traditional philosophy 2500 years ago had developed the terms and tools for inquiry.     Milt b

After Milt introduces the show, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released. They talk about their book and the Compatibility Checklist and why it should be read before your begin a relationship, and then Milt introduces the show's theme, women in committed relationships having secret sex or being tempted into destructive behavior, including teachers having sex with their students. “I'm seeing a lot of women having sex with young men,” he says, then relates some history of women who enjoyed young men before speaking of the current MILF/Cougar rage. Mia, “Young guys are always attracted to older women, nothing new; it always has happened, but now society judges things like that as sick, but I don't see it as a problem. Be glad if you're a young man and you've had great sex from an older woman.” Milt, “I love how thes

Young Women in Porn from the Woman's Perspective, and The MiltnMia Checklist Pt. 3       After Milt introduces the show, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released. They talk about their book and the Compatibility Checklist and why it should be read before your begin a relationship, before they begin another look at their Compatibility Checklist, going through another group of random topics from the Checklist which the reader Must Have or Should Be, which Mia responds to in detail:     Being an Individual in a Unit: Do most things together yet recognize each other's need to be alone when it's necessary. Mia, “Sometimes we need space from each other in order to really see ourselves, otherwise you feel you're being smothered. Even though you love to be together, there will be times when you need to be alone. Establ

  After Milt introduces the show, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released. They talk about their book and the Compatibility Checklist and why it should be read before your begin a relationship, before Milt introduces his own psychological condition, OMS or Oppressive Mothering Syndrome, where women “...screw up their relationships by smothering their kids in fear and worry, while neglecting their husbands.” Mia replies, “This trait in women has always happened, as women by nature are protective, but now with the Internet, we know everything especially the latest news instantly, which leads to over-worry. Worry is one of the worst things you can do for yourself and to others; we gotta give each other some trust, however, and what happens to the kids? They become fearful; how are they going to learn if they don't fall an

After Milt introduces the show, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which has just been released. Milt then says, “Today we are going to linger a bit and look at our book and the heart of the book, the important Compatibility Checklist.” He mentions details about the booklet and what the essence is before listing several elements of the Checklist, “If you take this checklist seriously, you will be avoiding so many of the traps couples fall into,” then starts with the 1st Must Have/Should Be, “Being intellectually 'level' with each other.” Mia replies, “We all have different intellects, but in marriage, where we spend most of our time together, if we can't share our thoughts with each other or challenge but not compete, eventually you'll get bored. We are all here to grow and if one is and the other isn't, you're headed for p

After Milt introduces the show, and Mia mentions how some people like to linger in their pain, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, which Milt feels is a must-read for people in the early stages of their relationship, he opens their theme, How to tell if it's love or just passion? Mia says, “Love will take time, but passion comes immediately. It's the simple things that will show you if it's love or not: does your partner pay you attention, or during sex do they think of their own orgasm and then fall asleep? Are we together even when we're apart? The only thing that'll tell you is time.” Milt says, “Women have a tendency to put the new guy on a pedestal, the greatest ever, until he screws up and comes crashing down.” Mia replies, “Women have more hopes than men, and since most women do not know who they are, they try to find the perfect

  After Milt introduces the show, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, and Mia talks about why people should read their books, “To prevent problems, who doesn't want that? Enough suffering!” Milt introduces the day's theme, When she finds out who you really are: The secret lives of Men and their fantasies. “It seems like it happens all the time, women discovering their partner's secret porno stash then all hell breaks loose, but why do men have to keep secret their actual desires?” Mia, “The essence of the problem is fear; men are afraid to reveal themselves because they may get labeled a pervert, since he may be portraying himself as the Perfect Man and doesn't want to be exposed.”     Milt talks about the great contradiction of a country like Pakistan, which is religiously intolerant, and their consumption of porn