Get Over Yourself! The Milt n Mia Show's podcast

After Milt introduces the show and mentions he's going solo, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, then mentions the 5th Interview with Toteras coming at the end of the show, but Milt is outraged and quickly launches into today's theme, Hitting a Woman and the Ray Rice spousal abuse scandal.     Milt relates the outline of what happened to Rice's then-girlfriend in the casino elevator, then offers some history of men beating women, admitting that it doesn't make it right and that violence against women, children and animals is always wrong. “When the video first came out, nobody was outraged and everybody was saying 'Oh it's a cultural thing amongst blacks, White Society doesn't understand' but that's BS.” He talks about the hypocrisy now of everyone, including the media, suddenly piling onto Rice after video of him actually hitting her surfaces,

After Milt introduces the show, and Mia, contrary to Milt, says women ARE superior to men, they squabble a bit before Milt introduces the guest expert interview coming at the end of the show with The Goddess Next Door, Angela Wilkinson, then moves to the day's theme, Inter-racial Cuckoldry. Milt defines the term and gives some historical background on the practice of men willingly giving their wives to other men, then he asks Mia for her views on being a cornudo in her culture, where the man doesn't know the wife is screwing around and how that reflects upon him, “It's a term of shame, but it never happened openly like now.” Milt asks why this is happening now, and Mia says, “Because he doesn't believe he has enough sexual power or confidence in himself. He may also get more pleasure watching his wife than he can give himself.” Milt asks if this is a trend or an experiment, and Mia says, “Everything is an experiment, it's a phase now but it's not new.” Milt adds, “Wh

After Milt introduces the show, and Mia speaks about making your life meaningful and discusses what their show is all about, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, along with their upcoming products, Milt introduces the day's theme, The Thug Culture issues and Extreme Body Modification. Mia comments that the Thug attitude is yet another learning experience for a lot of people before Milt continues his line of thinking, how many women are complaining about their Thug BF's behavior and demands; Mia will not allow him to get to his theme and insists on saying the women are making their choices to be with thugs and punks and they'll bear the cost of it, too. Milt asks why women are attracted to thugs and Mia says, “Because it's something different, trying to get outside the box. It's when we label things that we get in trouble, so whatever you want to do, do it proud

Today's show is a little different, as Milt, flying solo, opens it without his customary sarcasm but goes straight into explaining what the essence of their show is about and why they do what they do. “It's all about deflating the intensity of your reactions,” he says, “which means learning to see that you're not the only one in the world going through what you're going through, as we don't want to get locked-into our little problems and think they are the only things going on. Mia and I are all about getting you passed your little ephemeral worlds and moving you on to enjoying the life you actually have before you, rather than becoming a slave to your reactions.”     He explains the differences between Ego and Being and how psychology focuses on the Ego, and how our emotions, when they are left unchecked and not given essential principles to guide you, become out-of-control demons. He speaks of how we no longer go to our elders for advice but rather the therapists, “I

After Milt introduces the show, they discuss what their show is all about, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, Milt introduces the day's theme, an alternative look at Anal Sex. Milt shares some of the history of Sodomy along with the recent trend of young women almost exclusively engaging in anal sex, out of fear of HPV virus and pregnancy, and how many men today demand it. Mia says, “Just think about it, what is your anal area for? Evacuation, but now you're putting something in the opposite direction, so physiologically it doesn't make sense. Anal sex is dangerous, you can rupture a vein there, whereas the vagina is meant for that.” Milt asks, “What about long-term?” Mia replies, “Loss of the sphincter control, and it happens a lot with homosexual males.” Milt jumps in, “Let's talk meta-physical, a lot of guys are into it

After Milt introduces the show, he and Mia speak about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, before introducing today's show, a look at what psychologists are calling ROCD, or Relationship Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, which Milt feels is fraudulent. He reads a definition of the disorder, where sufferers are constantly on the alert for signs their partners are cheating, and that analysis makes the problem even worse rather than better. Mia suggests the real problem is labeling and being defined by that label and people searching for the corresponding symptoms. “Some people like to identify themselves to illnesses so they fit in,” Mia says. “In some ways, we are all abnormal nowadays, but you still need some basic principles.” Milt asks, “Are people getting those principles in therapy?” Mia replies, “Rarely. The little problems in therapy bec

After Milt introduces the show and Mia counters his anti-psychology rhetoric and they then discuss what their show is all about, he speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, before he mentions how summer is his favorite time of year and that the show will be an exploration of getting in shape for hot summer nights and some of the rules and guidelines for doing it together as a couple, including exercise and dietary tips.     Mia recommends doing something you enjoy as a first step, “If you can get to the water, swimming is the best, you forget about how fat you are or your legs rubbing together when you walk. Swimming is one of the best ways to get in shape without feeling the weight of your body, which makes exercise even harder.” Milt asks about the gym and Mia says, “People that like gyms are usually analytical, they like to measure how many ca

After Milt introduces the show and speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, he speaks about enjoying summer time and getting out in the light, which Mia agrees with and then goes on to talk about its benefits, “It's the perfect time to get in shape.”     Milt speaks then about this week's theme, the sexual role reversals between men and women and in particular, the recent and popular sexual activity entitled CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male), where women get together and have at least one naked male who they fondle, and beyond. Milt says, “There's 2 levels really, the simpler get-together is where women touch and even felate a naked man, and the more involved sessions are where women use a strap-on dildo on a man or men. And these parties are not confined to the fetish freaks but are becoming mainstream.” Milt then asks, “Is this a pas

After Milt introduces the show and introduces his 4th Interview with Demetrius Toteras, then speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, he speaks about the amazing background of Toteras, then reads some text from the website set up in honor of the man, SchoolofAbsurdity.com, which describes his life-story, before he introduces the interview with Toteras, featuring the issue of Change, its differing elements and the central issue of Change as it relates to relationships, women want men to change, but to what?     These are the themes Toteras discusses:     On Change: 'everything is subject to change'; deliberate change vs cyclical change; women want a man to change but to what?; women are tired of men and their wants; love is about being sweet every minute to women; sexual slapping; women want a man who feels; on veterans and feeling; on Plato, the 1st psy

After Milt introduces the show and speaks about their 2 relationship booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship, and mentions the author interview at the end of the show with Fiona Fine and her book, B.I.T.C.H.: Babe In Total Control of Herself, he brings in today's theme, are modern women too demanding? He mentions having 8 emails from a guy who's having real trouble pleasing his woman but asks Mia first if the statement is true; Mia replies, “I don't think they're too demanding, I think women are more equal now and we work and support the men sometimes when they aren't working, but the one who controls the money controls the relationship. I don't think it's that she's demanding, it's that she works hard and wants equality now, which is only fair, she wants what men have always had and I think that isn't being demanding, especially when she comes home to find the man doing nothing and she has to then co

  After Milt introduces the show, he speaks about how all sorts of countries involved in this year's World Cup are putting rules on how much sex their athletes may or may not have, and mentions a few countries. He then asks, “It's the age-old question: should athletes have sex before they compete or not? Won't it dissipate their aggressiveness and thus their performance, or is this a myth?” Mia responds, “Sex releases our stress, so if I was a coach, I would say 'no sex'. Focus on the game rather than releasing your stress, because it's important to keep that natural aggressiveness you need.” Milt cuts in, “Athletes are notoriously promiscuous, is it realistic to tell an athlete not to have sex?” Mia says it is, “Maybe a few guys perform better after sex, so maybe they should do a test, but it does make a big difference.” Milt expands this prohibitum to normal people, “Everybody is all about sexual release today, so might that contribute to where we a

After Milt introduces the show and their recent booklets, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in Your Relationship, he speaks of today's theme, on-line dating and their unique approach to it, the dangers and delights of on-line dating, and how to tell if a person you're speaking with wants you or just someone to hook up with. Milt asks Mia, what are some of the dangers people face with on-line dating?” Mia replies, “You can be anything you want, post pics of others to lure women in, pretend you're anybody if you're a good liar.” Milt asks, “Do you think people are using other people's pictures?” and Mia says, “Sure, but on-line, you're really creating fantasies with each other, since anybody can pretend to be anybody they choose. The guy who is dumb, you can figure him out right away, but an intelligent guy can really fool you.” Milt asks, “Should we be focused more on women than men

After Milt introduces the show and their recent booklets, and mentions Mia is sick and will be sitting out another show, he introduces today's show, the 3rd Interview with Toteras, and offers some background on Toteras and then outlines what the reader will be hearing:   Jewish concept of linear history; Arthur Haley's question, “Who am I?”; critical thinking and women; on the Idea and its elements; women's idea of who and what a man should be; gossip cleans a society; openness vs. privacy in Greece; why Italian men are great lovers; the Lothario; there must be sex for Life must continue; toilets of Manila and the mouth; the demands of a man; what a woman wants from a man; man's historical problems with women; Rome and Athens; money; man has found that sex has its limits; the ridiculousness of promises in the age of no honor; on Sgt. Zagrusky; on a man's word: you only have your word; the Amazonian women; what virtues are modern woman looking for; on 4 virtues.     Milt then return

After Milt introduces the show and mentions it's their 25th show so far and that Mia needs some time off from her hard-working schedule, he speaks of their recent booklet, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal, and their about-to-be-released book, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in Your Relationship, then goes on to introduce the second installment in his Interviews with Toteras series and outlines some of what the interview will be about while giving a cautionary note to those who can't take doses of strong medicine, which is what Toteras always gives. Milt then talks about the essence of Stoic philosophy, which he believes is what both Toteras and his wife, Mia Matters, practice at their core and that is, taking personal responsibility for your life rather than passing it off to the experts.     Toteras' themes: knowing how to deal with denials and betrayals; “do you think your wife will stay true?”; you have 2 choices: to know or not to know;

After Milt introduces the show and their recent booklet, and Mia defends Milt's opening tease, “He's not making fun of anybody, he's just trying to wake everybody up,” Milt introduces the show's theme, broken Trust and Loyalty and their timeless universal appeal. Milt suggests that Trust and Loyalty are not being taught or reinforced anywhere, “Everybody's me me me, and nobody's teaching the consequences of that selfishness,” and Mia says, “That's what we're doing, helping people wake up, but most people need to make mistakes in order to learn.” Milt asks if the global awareness spoken of in 2012 is actually possible, but Mia says, “We don't all awaken together, that isn't true justice if a rapist suddenly gets to avoid the consequences of his mistakes in some world-wide awakening, but the truth is, we pay for everything we do and nobody escapes true Justice.” Milt asks if society is capable of re-instating the values of Trustworthiness and Loyalty or are we to

After Milt introduces the show and their recent booklet, he begins with a description of the today's theme, the differences between Sadness and Depression and how so many people confuse the two, and offers a personal incident with a young man they know who lost his father and claims he's depressed, but Mia suggested he isn't really depressed by sad, which is natural after the death of a loved one. “Sadness should be short-term, but most people don't understand the differences.” Milt asks, “Isn't sadness a natural reaction that all of us have from time to time?” Mia goes on to say that we have become impatient with our feelings and seek immediate solutions, “But the biggest problem is people taking pills which they don't need.” Milt says, “Sadness isn't something that needs to be medicated.” Milt suggest that we have made industries out of previously normal human conditions, like Psychology, and Mia replies, “We also don't have friends or family anymore we

After Milt opens the show and pitches the e-book version of their booklet, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal, and Mia speaks about the essence of Betrayal today, he moves to today's show theme, relating an incident at a dinner party where everyone had been talking about the recent Pamela Anderson rape confession, when a woman stood up to announce she had been raped and was a victim and could not stand her boyfriend even touching her, an event where Mia stepped in and calmed the situation by saying, “It doesn't matter what has happened to you, it's how you respond now.” Mia describes what happened afterwards, “Whenever that bad memory comes along, you gotta say 'I'm alive, healthy, no disease though I have some pain but I can overcome this because it is in the past'.” Milt asks if there are some experiences that no matter what we just can't get over them, but Mia replies, “If you were locked in a house for 20 years and raped every day, yeah, that's tough, b

After Milt opens the show and pitches the e-book version of their booklet, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal, he introduces the world to Demetrius Toteras, his mentor, and describes their relationship, Toteras' history and the recordings which Milt plans to make a semi-regular feature of the show. With little fanfare, Milt then offers over 30 minutes of casual Toteras conversation (with his son and nephew chirping away happily in the distance!)     The subjects you'll hear: Toteras on Women; what attracts him? her demeanor; women want equality; women lose it all for their man, though he doesn't; the man is the jerk; history of liberation of women; Rome; to know where you are at at all times; people need affairs today; impossibility of knowing who you are; everyone today is fucked up; people shouldn't have friends, they have nothing to offer; men and women aren't working together, they're competing; modern men have nothing to offer, all body and nothing else; things are what

After Milt introduces the show, they mention the essence of their booklet, The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal and just what readers will gain from reading it before, opening the show with today's theme, the real story behind the Donald Sterling Racism Controversy. Milt says, “We're gonna overlook the racism aspect and focus in on what I feel the real story is: her screwing other men and he having had enough. The real issue is her betrayal of Mr. Sterling.” Mia replies, “Listen to the whole ten minute recording, I think it's a setup. If he was truly a racist, why would he be dating a half-Black, half-Mexican woman?” Milt adds, “I have heard it 3 times and I am convinced it's a script.” He goes on to describe how cultural people look at those outside their cultures, and suggests that Sterling was simply tired of being publicly humiliated by his culture group over her showing pictures of the men she's been dating, notably, famous Black men. Mia strongly

After Milt introduces the show, and proudly boasts about the release of The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal, before flirting with his wife a little, he goes into this week's theme, which is the reverse of their usual 'go forward with your life and embrace the future'. Milt addresses the idea that a lot of people are not willing to let go of their past and there are some who do their best to go back into their past to try to recreate what once was. Milt mentions his criticism of Psychology and its tendency to analyze What Was rather than what is coming, then talks about how so many people are attempting to re-create something that has already passed. Mia responds, “Today is a new opportunity, but if something didn't work in the past, it's a lesson and an opportunity for us to learn and go forward. If it didn't work in the past, why would it work now?” Milt suggests “You're really selling yourself short by believing you aren't capable of anything better,” and Mia re