Marriage After God

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with J. Parker to talk about a topic many couples struggle to discuss openly — sex and intimacy in marriage. J. shares how she began writing anonymously about sexual intimacy in Christian marriage after realizing there were very few safe, honest resources for couples wrestling with mismatched sex drives and unspoken frustration.Together, we explore how intimacy is deeply connected to the overall health of a marriage, why communication is essential in navigating sexual challenges, and how humor and honesty can help break the shame and taboo surrounding these conversations. This conversation offers encouragement, perspective, and practical hope for couples seeking greater connection in their marriage.In this episode we discuss–Open conversation about sex is vital for healthy marital intimacy.Intimacy in marriage is connected to emotional and relational health.Sex is a spiritual act designed to reflect God’s covenant love.Couples must approach se

In today’s episode of the Marriage Devotional series, we talk about anger and fear and how they impact marriage. We discuss how feelings of disrespect can trigger anger and explain why unchecked emotions can lead to destructive patterns in relationships. We also examine how fear often fuels anger and disrupts communication, encouraging couples to recognize emotional triggers, practice self-control, and seek God’s guidance in navigating their responses.In this episode-Unchecked anger and fear can damage marriage.Self-control is key to responding wisely.God models righteous anger paired with mercy.Identifying emotional triggers helps change reactions.Fear often fuels anger and affects communication.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: marriage, a

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about why forgiveness is essential to a thriving marriage. We explore what biblical forgiveness really is — and what it isn’t — and why withholding forgiveness quietly builds walls between spouses. We share how humility, repentance, and grace work together to bring healing and restore intimacy. Our hope is to encourage every couple to practice forgiveness as a daily reflection of God’s mercy toward us.In this episode-Forgiveness is vital for a healthy, lasting marriage.Forgiveness does not excuse sin — it releases the debt.God’s grace empowers us to forgive what feels impossible.Humility and repentance open the door to reconciliation.Withholding forgiveness creates distance and division.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Re

Today our devotional episode explores how pride damages marriages by fueling defensiveness, distance, and conflict. We look at what Scripture says about pride, how it shows up in everyday interactions, and why humility is essential for restoring intimacy and unity.In this episode-Pride creates distance and conflict in marriage.Defensiveness and control are signs of pride at work.Scripture calls us to humility over self-exaltation.Humility opens the door to healing and connection.The Holy Spirit helps us recognize and overcome pride.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriage After God  Become a patronSmith Family Resources, Inc © 2026Keywords: pride in marriage, humility, Christian marriage, conflict, intimacy, reconciliation, selflessness, spiritual growth, marriage podcast, biblical marriageSupport this podcast at — h

In this episode, we talk about the importance of putting on the armor of God and how it impacts our daily lives and marriages. Scripture reminds us that our battle is not against each other, but against spiritual forces of darkness, which means we need God’s strength, His truth, and His righteousness to stand firm.We walk through several pieces of the armor—like the belt of truth, breastplate of righteousness, and the shoes of the gospel of peace—and discuss what they practically look like in a Christian marriage. When we anchor ourselves in truth, guard our hearts with righteousness, and cling to the peace that comes from the gospel, we are better equipped to resist temptation, overcome fear, and cultivate unity in our relationship.Our hope is to remind couples that God has already given us everything we need to stand strong—we simply need to put it on daily.In this episode-The armor of God is essential for spiritual protection in marriage.Each piece has a purpose—and understanding that purpose helps us stan

In this episode Aaron sits down with marriage expert Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, to talk about the heart behind lasting marriages—and why love must be expressed with humility, grace, and the attitude of Christ.Drawing from over 60 years of marriage, decades of pastoral counseling, and the lessons that shaped his life’s work, Dr. Chapman shares how early conflict in his own marriage led him to a transformative encounter with God that forever changed the way he loved his wife. Together, Aaron and Gary explore how love languages can heal—or harm—when used incorrectly, and why serving your spouse must always come before trying to change them.This episode also introduces Dr. Chapman’s newest book, The Love Language That Matters Most, which goes deeper into the dialects of love languages, personality differences, and the dangers of using love as manipulation instead of sacrifice.In this episode we discuss–Long-term marriage faithfulnessBiblical foundations for loving your spouseServant lead

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about what it means to live according to God’s economy in our marriage. Money is one of the most common areas of tension for couples, yet Scripture calls us to approach our finances with trust, generosity, and open hands.We share personal experiences of walking through financial uncertainty and how God used those seasons to shift our perspective. Instead of holding tightly to what we had, we learned to trust God as our provider and see generosity as an act of faith. God’s economy doesn’t always align with the world’s expectations, but it consistently leads to freedom and joy.When couples commit to a shared, biblical view of money, finances become less about control and more about stewardship. Trusting God together with our resources strengthens unity in marriage and reminds us that everything we have ultimately belongs to Him.In this episode-God’s economy calls us to trust Him rather than rely on money.Finances can create tension in marriage without a shared bi

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with Pastor Craig Thompson to talk honestly about the tension and blessing of balancing ministry with marriage and family. Together they explore the reality of spiritual warfare in the home, the importance of staying grounded in a healthy church community, and the daily choices that shape the spiritual health of a family.Craig shares from his own experience as a pastor, husband, and father—highlighting the need for intentionality, grace, and constant reliance on the Holy Spirit. Their conversation encourages couples to prioritize their marriage, invest in their children, and stay rooted in biblical community as they navigate the trials that come with Christian living.In this episode–Balancing ministry and family requires humility, intentionality, and grace.Pastors—and all parents—must prioritize their families while faithfully serving others.Spiritual warfare is real and active in everyday family life.Forgiveness, grace, and repentance are ess

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we dive into the reality of conflict in marriage and the deeper spiritual layers behind the tension we often feel. We share how easy it can be to see each other as the enemy, when Scripture reminds us that the real battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces and the desires of our own flesh.We talk about the tactics of deception and accusation that can creep into our hearts, pulling us away from unity. We also explore how humility, love, and intentional communication help us fight fair and stay connected even in the hardest moments.In this episode-Conflict in marriage is normal—and Scripture offers guidance for handling it well.We must remember who the real enemy is and refuse to fight against each other.Spiritual warfare often plays out in our closest relationships.Deception and lies can fuel conflict if we don’t recognize them.Accusations tear down unity.Unity requires humility, intentionality, and a softened heart.Our posture and body language

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about how much our conduct shapes the culture of our marriage. We share how the way we speak, respond, and show love reveals what we truly believe about God—and how it impacts the emotional and spiritual climate of our home.We discuss the husband’s role in protecting and caring for his wife and family, and how a wife’s conduct can strengthen and encourage her husband’s faith. As we reflect on Scripture and our own experiences, we encourage couples to stay rooted in prayer, lean on the Holy Spirit, and commit to living out love every day.In this episode–Our conduct in marriage flows from our beliefs about God.Husbands are called to protect their wives and families.How we view ourselves shapes how we love each other.A wife’s conduct can influence her husband’s walk with God.Emotional and spiritual protection matter deeply.Conduct builds trust and intimacy over time.Staying close to God keeps us close to each other.Prayer strengthens both husband and wife.We shoul

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the truth that Christ alone deserves the throne in our lives. The conversation challenges all of us to lay down anything we’ve elevated above Him and to find our worth, value, and identity solely in who He is. When we honor Christ as our ultimate authority, we experience the fullness, purpose, and freedom found only in Him.In this episode–Christ does not want to share any throne in your life.We are called to seek our worthiness and value in Christ alone.All honor and glory belong to Christ and Christ only.Placing anything above Jesus diminishes His rightful authority.True value is found in a relationship with Him.Christ deserves our full devotion and undivided heart.Searching for worth outside of Him always leads to emptiness.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Support this podcast:Shop Marriag

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss God’s holiness, the process of Him refining us, and how marriage provides the context for Him to continue that sanctification in our lives. We share how difficult seasons often reveal what’s hidden beneath the surface—exposing impurities, refining character, and drawing us closer to God. Through the work of the Holy Spirit, husbands and wives can experience deep personal growth, greater unity, and more authentic love. We hope this episode is a reminder of the importance of forgiveness, reconciliation, and recognizing how God can use trials to strengthen and mature a marriage over time.In this episode–Trials in marriage reveal what lies beneath the surface.Just as fire brings impurities of gold to the top, challenges expose the sin in our hearts.The Holy Spirit is faithful to refine us and scrape away what doesn’t belong.We are better today than we were years ago.We’ve become quicker to forgive and quicker to reconcile.Our love grows deeper with each passing

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the meaning and significance of reconciliation in marriage. We discuss how sin creates distance in relationships and how forgiveness and reconciliation work together to restore unity and intimacy. Through biblical insights, practical encouragement, and personal experiences we hope to help couples pursue healing, trust, and oneness in their marriage.In this episode–Reconciliation is essential for unity and intimacy in marriage.Understanding what reconciliation truly means helps us apply it in our relationships.Sin creates relational separation that must be addressed with humility and truth.Forgiveness is necessary for reconciliation, but forgiveness alone doesn’t always restore closeness.God calls believers to be ambassadors of reconciliation in their marriages.Open and honest communication is key to rebuilding trust.Reconciliation takes time and intentional effort, especially after deep hurt.God’s love empowers us to forgive, restore, and pursue unity.A thri

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore what it truly means to love sacrificially within marriage. We discuss how genuine love mirrors the love of Christ—selfless, patient, and enduring—and how the Holy Spirit empowers couples to live this out daily. We remind listeners the fruits of the Spirit as essential qualities that nurture a healthy, grace-filled relationship. When both husband and wife surrender to God’s Spirit, your marriage can be a powerful reflection of the gospel.In this episode–Sacrificial love is essential in marriage.Belief in God strengthens our ability to love sacrificially.The Holy Spirit empowers couples to love beyond themselves.Initiating love requires intentionality and commitment.Faith deepens connection and unity in marriage.Marriage should reflect God’s selfless love.Join in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriage After GodInstagram: Unveiled Wife Instagram: Husband Revolution Suppor

Today on the podcast, Aaron talks with Christin Rosa, who shares her powerful journey of faith through marriage, infertility, and motherhood. Christin opens up about the cultural differences in her marriage, the challenges of infertility, and the prenatal struggles she faced with her son, Nate. Through prayer, courage, and unwavering faith, she and her husband learned to advocate for life and trust in God’s plan. Christin also shares how her experiences inspired her to write Saving Hope, a testimony of God’s goodness and the healing that comes from walking through trials with Him.In this episode–Christin Rosa’s inspiring journey of faith and family.Navigating marriage dynamics can be challenging yet deeply rewarding.Infertility often becomes a season of deeper reliance on God.Cultural differences shape the dynamics of marriage and parenting.Community support is vital during times of hardship.Facing prenatal challenges requires faith, courage, and trust in God.Advocating for life reflects the sanctity of God’s

In this episode, we remind couples that marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts. We explore what it means to see your spouse as a blessing, not a burden, and how gratitude can transform your perspective. Join us as we discuss the power of forgiveness, intentional communication, and daily appreciation in cultivating a thriving marriage that reflects God’s grace and love.In this episode–Your spouse is a gift from GodMarriage is designed to be a blessing, not a burdenGratitude changes how we see and treat our spouseForgiveness restores connection and peaceSincere gifts—whether words, actions, or time—build intimacy“Two are better than one” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)Life and marriage are gifts to cherish dailyHealthy communication expresses appreciation clearlySeeing your spouse through God’s eyes strengthens your relationshipReflecting God’s grace is at the heart of a marriage after GodJoin in on our devotional series and get your copies of Husband After God and Wife After GodFollow Marriage After God:Instagram: Marriag

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith talks with Heath Hardesty, a pastor, husband, and father who shares his journey from plumbing to ministry. Heath discusses what it means to live an integrated faith—where every part of life, from family to work, reflects a relationship with Jesus.They explore apprenticeship to Christ as a daily practice of gentleness, prayer, and presence, and the importance of lament and joy in the Christian life. Heath’s book All Things Together invites believers to weave faith through every aspect of their marriages, families, and communities.TakeawaysHeath Hardesty shares his journey from plumbing to pastoring.Faith should shape every area of life, not just Sundays.Apprenticeship to Jesus is about living what we believe.Gentleness, prayer, and presence strengthen marriage and family.All Things Together explores a whole-life approach to faith.Connect with Heath Hardesty:https://www.heathhardesty.org/All Things Together: https://a.co/d/9vVNtUEFollow Marriage Aft

In this episode of the Marriage After God Podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith explore the biblical design for marriage and the distinct yet complementary roles of husbands and wives. They discuss how servant leadership mirrors Christ’s example and how companionship plays a vital role in building a thriving, Christ-centered relationship.Aaron unpacks what it means for husbands to lead through service and humility, following the example of Jesus, while Jennifer encourages wives to support, encourage, and pray for their husbands. TakeawaysGod granted man the role of the wife as a helper.Husbands are called to lead as Christ leads the Church.Servant leadership means leading by example, not by force.Wives are encouraged to support and uplift their husbands.Companionship is essential for a thriving marriage.Effective communication fosters trust and understanding.Quality time together strengthens intimacy and connection.Prayer is vital for both spouses in fulfilling their roles.Marriage is a reflection of God’s covena

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith sits down with Bobby Jamieson, a pastor, author, and church planter based in Washington, D.C. Bobby shares his experiences in ministry and family life, offering biblical wisdom drawn from the book of Ecclesiastes. Together, they explore what it means to find purpose and joy amid the challenges of parenting, leadership, and life in a busy culture. Bobby unpacks the themes of contentment, gratitude, and self-sacrifice, showing how Ecclesiastes points us toward lasting fulfillment in God rather than the fleeting pursuits of success or pleasure. TakeawaysPrayer is foundational in parenting and spiritual leadership.Raising teenagers requires patience, empathy, and emotional presence.True ministry and family life require continual self-sacrifice.Ecclesiastes offers timeless wisdom for those seeking meaning in modern life.Lasting contentment comes from accepting and embracing one’s lot in life as a gift from God.Connect with Bobby Jamieson:Everything Is

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith explore the question, “Did God design marriage?” Together, they reflect on the intentionality behind marriage, the unique relationship between men and women, and the biblical foundation that defines this sacred covenant. They emphasize how love and respect work hand in hand within marriage and how obedience to God’s Word should guide our actions—regardless of our spouse’s response.The discussion highlights that marriage is not a random arrangement but a purposeful reflection of God’s image and His relationship with the Church. They also share how the Holy Spirit empowers couples to walk in unity and to embrace growth through challenges. They encourage listeners to see marriage as a divine invitation to reflect Christ’s love, celebrate differences, and pursue God together.TakeawaysMarriage is designed by God with intentionality.The Bible opens with the concept of marriage.Marriage is a unique identifier of humanity.Men have a deep need