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Helping people overcome adversities so they can live inspired and productive lives.

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  • HOW TO BALANCE E-LEARNING AND LIFE

    HOW TO BALANCE E-LEARNING AND LIFE

    13/05/2020 Duration: 04min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/how-to-balance-e-learning-and-life On March 12th 2020, teachers, parents, and caregivers had to find a new normal: How to balance E-learning and life. Childhood Victories experienced the first impact COVID-19 the same day. One of our presenters was finishing up a live presentation with a Q and A session. The P.A. system erupted in the middle answering of a question: “Students are to bring their iPads, laptops, chargers, and school books home. All after school events have been cancelled. Teachers, there will be a mandatory meeting immediately following the students dismissal today.” https://www.victorpacini.com/how-to-balance-e-learning-and-life -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories ----

  • DO THESE DURING LOCKDOWN

    DO THESE DURING LOCKDOWN

    06/05/2020 Duration: 03min

    Get the transcript here: https://www.victorpacini.com/things-to-do-during-lockdown Feeling a little stir-crazy? Are you running out of ideas to keep you and the small army you created (kids, pets, plants, etc.) busy? Well, look no further! Here are a 100 things to do during lockdown: https://www.victorpacini.com/things-to-do-during-lockdown -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories creates programs and products that help children build courage, confidence, make p

  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD ABOUT UNSAFE TOUCH

    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD ABOUT UNSAFE TOUCH

    29/04/2020 Duration: 05min

    https://www.victorpacini.com/our-call-to-action-child-abuse-prevention-month As we wrap up Child Abuse Prevention month, let’s focus on a call to action. The presenters at Childhood Victories have a straightforward approach. We share our stories and help others do the same. Using an open dialogue we create an atmosphere that normalizes tough conversations. This is our path, our plan, and the action we choose to take. Take a look at some other prevention strategies: https://www.victorpacini.com/our-call-to-action-child-abuse-prevention-month/ -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their perso

  • WHY YOU DONT GIVE UP

    WHY YOU DON'T GIVE UP

    23/04/2020 Duration: 05min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/answers-from-a-sexual-abuse-survivor-part-3/ Child Abuse Prevention Month is commemorating its 37th year of existence. After almost 40 years of advocacy and education efforts, we still see resistance when it comes to child sexual abuse. While we understand that the topic makes some uncomfortable, we are still committed to our goal: empower survivors of sexual abuse to be seen and heard. This April we are asking our presenters some questions on resiliency, life after trauma, and how they cope in their present lives. https://www.victorpacini.com/answers-from-a-sexual-abuse-survivor-part-3/ -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Progra

  • Am I Still Sad?

    Am I Still Sad?

    15/04/2020 Duration: 04min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/answers-from-a-sexual-abuse-survivor-part-2 Child Abuse Prevention Month is commemorating its 37th year of existence. After almost 40 years of advocacy and education efforts, we still see resistance when it comes to child sexual abuse. While we understand that the topic makes some uncomfortable, we are still committed to our goal: empower survivors of sexual abuse to be seen and heard. This April we are asking our presenters some questions on resiliency, life after trauma, and how they cope in their present lives. https://www.victorpacini.com/answers-from-a-sexual-abuse-survivor-part-2 -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs

  • DEANNA = COURAGE

    DEANNA = COURAGE

    13/04/2020 Duration: 03min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/answers-from-a-sexual-abuse-survivor-part-1 Child Abuse Prevention Month is commemorating its 37th year of existence. After almost 40 years of advocacy and education efforts, we still see resistance when it comes to child sexual abuse. While we understand that the topic makes some uncomfortable, we are still committed to our goal: empower survivors of sexual abuse to be seen and heard. This April we are asking our presenters some questions on resiliency, life after trauma, and how they cope in their present lives. https://www.victorpacini.com/answers-from-a-sexual-abuse-survivor-part-1 -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs

  • WHAT I LOVE TO DO

    WHAT I LOVE TO DO

    01/04/2020 Duration: 03min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/the-history-of-child-protection Officially in 1983, April was made Child Abuse Prevention month in the United States. This dedication has 3 goals: 1. Raise the public’s awareness of the 1 in 7 children who experienced child abuse or neglect in the past year, which is most likely a low estimate 2. Refocus the efforts and resources geared towards protecting youth and strengthening families 3. Foster community engagement through activities that support the cause https://www.victorpacini.com/the-history-of-child-protection -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding an

  • NEVER DO THIS - BUT DO THIS

    NEVER DO THIS - BUT DO THIS

    25/03/2020 Duration: 07min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/never-do... Every person in a romantic relationship fulfills certain roles. One partner may stay at home while another “brings home the bacon”. One may do the cooking and another may mow the lawn. Or maybe they switch roles on and off; Sometimes it depends on which partner has the time between working 40-hours, raising children, and maintaining their own sanity. While our romantic relationships can be vastly different, in order to be healthy they must all have a foundation of equality. https://www.victorpacini.com/never-do... -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding

  • WHY ABUSE HAPPENS

    WHY ABUSE HAPPENS

    18/03/2020 Duration: 05min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/why-abuse-happens When we don’t understand the power imbalance of an abusive relationship, it’s easy to judge a victim of domestic violence. Why victims stay is not simple to explain nor is every abusive relationship the same. However, we can look at common abuser tactics and why so many victims feel trapped and unable to leave. First of all, abusers do not start off as abusive. Abusers can be incredibly charismatic, kind, and even gentle in the honeymoon phase. They know that in order to gain the trust, love, and loyalty we so often want out of HEALTHY relationships, they must play the part; They manipulate their partner into believing they are a good person. https://www.victorpacini.com/why-abuse-happens -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ----

  • PARENTING AS A SURVIVOR

    PARENTING AS A SURVIVOR

    11/03/2020 Duration: 03min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/parenting-as-a-survivor Parenting is a difficult journey to embark on. The exhaustion those first few months paired with the awe of this beautiful new person is life changing. There is frustration of a defiant toddler and the amazement of them stringing together sentences. Parents experience pride with their child’s independence in adolescence; they are growing up! But there is also the deep ache that as a parent you are no longer the first person your child seeks out for attention or guidance. Any and all of this can be a trigger to us parents. But what about survivors of child abuse? https://www.victorpacini.com/parenting-as-a-survivor -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories ---------------

  • THE RIGHT TO COME FORWARD

    THE RIGHT TO COME FORWARD

    04/03/2020 Duration: 05min

    Often times people will question why an adult who was sexually abused in their childhood waited years to disclose. I cannot speak for all victims or survivors, but I can say with a certainty many of us felt shame, embarrassment, and guilt; we were led to believe it was our fault or we could get in trouble. Many of us loved our abusers because that same abuser was someone we once trusted and we didn’t want them to get into trouble. It is possible for victims and survivors to work through healing and unlearn what they were taught in the midst of survival: they were never at fault and their abuser is to blame. www.VictorPacini.com/the-right-to-come-forward

  • WHY EVERY YEAR?

    WHY EVERY YEAR?

    27/02/2020 Duration: 03min

    Get the Mp3 transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/why-every-year Every year our children review and relearn information from the previous year. Bus evacuations, fire drills, tornado and inclement weather drills, code red and lockdowns, and even stranger danger. All of this is taught and learned and relearned with one goal in mind: to keep children safe. When Erin’s Law was passed in 2013, it followed the same logical as every other safety lesson: With education and conversation, we can reduce a child’s risk of sexual abuse. https://www.victorpacini.com/why-every-year -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helpi

  • WHAT IS ERINS LAW

    WHAT IS ERIN'S LAW

    19/02/2020 Duration: 04min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/what-is-erins-law On January 24th, 2013 Governor Quinn of Illinois signed Senate Bill 856 into law. More commonly known as Erin’s Law, this legislation mandates all public schools to provide comprehensive prevention education on sexual abuse. Statistically speaking, 1/4 girls and 1/6 boys will be sexually abused before their 18th birthday. If this law had not passed, countless children over the last 7 years would have been left in the dark to fend for themselves, suffer in silence, and bare the weight of a secret they should never have been told to keep. https://www.victorpacini.com/what-is-erins-law -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com htt

  • THEYVE TOLD YOU...NOW WHAT? PART 2

    THEY'VE TOLD YOU...NOW WHAT? PART 2

    12/02/2020 Duration: 04min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/theyve-told-you-now-what-part-2 As significant others of survivors, we have to remember that sexual abuse breeds in secrecy and thrives on silence and complicity. Without sharing openly, your loved one will continue to suffer with the terror all alone. https://www.victorpacini.com/theyve-told-you-now-what-part-2 -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories creates programs and products that help children build

  • THEYVE TOLD YOU...NOW WHAT?

    THEY'VE TOLD YOU...NOW WHAT?

    05/02/2020 Duration: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/theyve-told-you-now-what An initial disclosure of sexual abuse is the first step in a survivor’s decision to heal. They have determined that you are a safe person to go to. They are taking a leap of faith telling you what has happened to them, and most likely hoping you will respond with compassion and love. https://www.victorpacini.com/theyve-told-you-now-what -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice and NOT stay silent in all areas of personal struggle. Childhood Victories crea

  • DOS AND DO NOTS OF DISCLOSING

    DO'S AND DO NOT'S OF DISCLOSING

    29/01/2020 Duration: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here www.victorpacini.com/dos-and-do-nots-of-disclosing Now more than ever, the topic of child sexual abuse is discussed. Parents and those who work with children are inundated with information that could help a child: Signs of abuse, grooming tactics, statistics, coping mechanisms, how to be supportive on a healing journey, and how to cope as a parent if your child has been through trauma. All of this information is crucial, but so is knowing how to respond in the event of a disclosure. www.victorpacini.com/dos-and-do-nots-of-disclosing -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children inc

  • Standing Tall and Speaking Loud

    Standing Tall and Speaking Loud

    21/01/2020 Duration: 04min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/standing-tall-and-speaking-loud Speaking up for what we believe in has never been an easy feat. Standing by our values, beliefs, and mores can be risky; History has shown us time and time again speaking publicly against injustices can put us in danger. Fear and all, so many of us jump into the void of the unknown that is self-advocacy. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day, which we celebrate every third Monday in January, is a powerful reminder of why self-advocacy can ultimately be for the world. https://www.victorpacini.com/standing-tall-and-speaking-loud -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victorie

  • HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD ABOUT SEXUAL ABUSE

    HOW TO TALK TO YOUR CHILD ABOUT SEXUAL ABUSE

    15/01/2020 Duration: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/how-to-talk-to-your-child-about-sexual-abuse Most children will never experience sexual abuse yet for the 1/4 girls and 1/6 boys who will be victimized before their 18th birthday (Source 1), this conversation will make all the difference. At Childhood Victories, we teach students about sexual abuse from pre-school all the way up until senior year. Our curriculum normalizes the conversation in school and empowers children to use their voice. https://www.victorpacini.com/how-to-talk-to-your-child-about-sexual-abuse -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping chi

  • WHY EMPATHY IS SO IMPORTANT

    WHY EMPATHY IS SO IMPORTANT

    08/01/2020 Duration: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/invisible-battles Whether we like to admit it or not, we all have invisible battles that others may have no idea are happening. As adults we deal with everyday responsibilities like bills, work, and our households. We ebb and flow with relationships, from our love interests to family and friends, and sort through the healthy and the toxic. We look back on our childhoods with fondness and nostalgia or find a path to recover from injustices. -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- Meet Victor Pacini and Childhood Victories --------------- http://www.ChildhoodVictories.com https://Programs.VictorPacini.com Childhood Victories, Inc is about guiding and helping children increase their personal happiness by empowering them to have a voice

  • TRANSFORMATION

    TRANSFORMATION

    01/01/2020 Duration: 05min

    Get the Mp3/transcript here https://www.victorpacini.com/using-the-past-to-fuel-a-new-present Much of our present life can feel overtaken over by our past. When we think about it, why wouldn’t it? Past pain and traumas can rear their ugly heads at any moment, with seemingly no warning. A trigger during the holiday season, second guessing someone else’s goodwill as possible grooming, or even maintaining hyper-vigilance long after the danger in our lives is gone, is nothing short of suffocation. We understand why feeling “stuck” in the wake of trauma can feel like drowning. We also know that choosing to kick and claw to the surface and making choices can alter the present as we know it. https://www.victorpacini.com/using-the-past-to-fuel-a-new-present -------------------- Get Your Free Copy Of Victor Pacini's Book, The Erin's Law Solution: The Safe Way To Teach Sexual Abuse Awareness to Students that Gives Social Workers, Teachers, and Parents Peace of Mind. http://erinslawsolutionbook.com ---------------- M

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