Jerry Banfield

If you want to learn how to work and get work done on oDesk with pro tips and experience, this podcast is for you! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jerrybanfield/support

If you want to know how to work online, this podcast will share with you the story of how I started and how you can start too! My story is about working hard, doing the right work, learning from mistakes, and being effective at what you choose to do. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jerrybanfield/support

Episode 3: How can I find the right person to love in my life? Simple answer: Look for them, be ready when you find them, and make a good choice for both of you! 1) Look. Meet many people. Place yourself in positions to meet the right people. Spend a little time with many people versus a lot of time with one. 2) Be ready. Have the right mindset that you will find them eventually and you will be ready when you do. Look good. Feel good. Take care of yourself. Love the people around you. Engage with life. Discover yourself. 3) Make a good choice. There are a lot of good people out there and often two good people together does not equal a good relationship. If things are not good early on, move on. The easiest time to leave is right at the beginning. Accept that if it went wrong it happened for a good reason. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jerrybanfield/support

Why don’t we spend more time learning about love? I believe we can learn love just like any other subject. Why is learning love the easiest way to live a happy life? If we spent as much time learning about love as we spent learning biology in school, how much happier would each of us be? How can I find the right person to love in my life? How can I keep the right person to love in my life? How can I love the people already in my life? What can I do to find love faster? What should I avoid doing to find true love? How do I know if I have found love? Why is learning and finding love so hard? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jerrybanfield/support

How can I love the people already in my life? How many people come to your funeral is up to you. Think about them. More. 6 beers in the fridge is worth many more than 12 at the store. How to begin? One thought at a time. One person at a time. One action at a time. How to grow? Keep them in your mind. Listen when they say "I need" or "I wish" or "someday I want to". Inventory what they need and get it for them when you find it. How to maintain? Keep doing what you are doing. Keep good habits. Always take action instead of saying you should or you need to or you will. Note that there are limits. Most human brains are wired to around 150 people as the limit for socialization. When you reach your limits, for every one you bring in, often one will unintentionally get kicked out. Make sure the people you love are giving back love and that you aren't missing or taking love for granted. This can be easy to do with the people closest to you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jerrybanfield/support