Jerry Banfield

Are you living your relationships in today, or in the past and the future? For example, my wife and I consistently live our relationship in today. We focus on what we are doing, taking care of each other, and keeping each other happy, today. We don't spend much time on what we have done before or what we are going to do in the future, unless it is important for making decisions, today. I have noticed that many people in the early years of their relationship tend to focus on what the future holds for them. In fact, it seems as if most couples focus on what they will do in the future at the start of their relationship, and what they did in the past towards the end. I am thankful that when my wife and I first started dating, we took the time to truly get to know one another, and focused on what were doing in the moment. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jerrybanfield/support