Jerry Banfield

When a disastrous event occurs, it is easy to let the different what-if scenarios overwhelm us. The fact of the matter is you cannot change the past, and you can't make certain what will happen in the future. Last night, my mom fell off her horse while riding at night. Thank god she was wearing an emergency wrist band which immediately contacted my brother. In the past, my mind would immediately start racing over everything we could have done to prevent this accident from happening. What if my mom lived closer to me? Why doesn't she stop riding horses at her age? Why go riding at night? This was especially tough on me because I already lost my dad, and it is impossible to know how much more time I have left with my mom. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/jerrybanfield/support