Jerry Banfield

Most of my life I thought my work, school, and home life were separate. Since I tried to keep them separate, I tended to act differently at work, school, and home. I thought I could act however I wanted without is effecting the other areas of my life. I find now that having unity and consistency across all areas makes my life much easier. When I was kid, I was the person who would always use profanity at school to try and be funny, but at home I would never cuss and always do as I was told. This kind of behavior carried in to my adult life where I would cause a lot of trouble with my friends, but be on my best behavior at work. All this role-playing was exhausting! The solution I have found is to be present in each moment and be useful in every situation. Instead of trying to pull from brain on how to act, or trying to play off of roles I had in the past, I simply try to appreciate each moment which is given to me. I simply am. Thank you for taking the time to be here with me, and I appreciate your feedback!