An Interview With Melissa Llarena

Have you been neglecting your own interests, wants, and desires, all in the pursuit of making other people happy? They may be your family colleagues, society, or your close friends. Has the time come for you to draw a line in the sand and make a really hard decision – a decision that brings up guilt and shame – to finally put a stop to your patterns to live the often "unlived" lives of others? It's time you create your own unique colorful life. One that is only limited by your own imagination and one where you can feel good about your choices, and occasionally, spoil yourself and allow yourself to thrive.  Today, we're going to talk about two major consequences of not taking the time to reassess why you do the things you do, and whether you're actually living your life or someone else's. I'm also going to leave you with three questions to help give you clarity as to whether you may need a bit of help with your own reassessment process.  Think of this as a hair detangling session. For those of us with curly ha