Aspiecast - Asperger Syndrome Podcast
AspieCast Episode 2: Losing Friends
- Author: Vários
- Narrator: Vários
- Publisher: Podcast
- Duration: 0:28:08
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Synopsis
In this episode, I mention a longstanding pattern that was both subtle and mentally devastating. The pattern seemed to be that whenever I made a new friend, they would eventually - either after a couple days, weeks, months, or in some cases years - be turned off by me and not want to be around me, and in some cases not hiding behavior that conveyed strongly how they felt a need to ignore me. The end result: I ended up over the long term having a pattern of avoiding interactions with people I considered successful or well connected, and being friends only with people who others would consider losers, and who weren't really the types who could be a part of connecting you to the world in ways that I saw other folks do, namely the ones I wanted to be friends with. Take a listen - this show isn't too long - and then let me know by email if you have had any sort of similar situations when trying to make friends. and if so, did you find it to be a pattern and how did you deal with the loss of friends? If you are