Mindset Academy

I Love You You're Perfect, Now Change | Relationship 911

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In today's Episode we answer one of our viewer's questions: “My Girlfriend and I just moved in together. I am a night owl and she is an early bird and  it’s just not working. Help!” In this Episode,  Relationship Experts Jan and Monika advise viewer Brian on what to do about him and his girlfriend’s differing morning and nightly routines.  Spoiler Alert: DO NOT try to change the other person’s schedule.  Key Takeaways: [0:30] At the very beginning of our relationship, we went through the same thing as well! Monika is an early riser and Jan is a night owl. So at the beginning Monika would try to MAKE him into an early riser or shame him for being a night owl.  This will not work! [1:02] Forcing someone to be someone they are not in a relationship simply does not work at all and will only end up putting a strain on the relationship.  [1:30 ] Ask yourself, where am I putting my energy and focus? Why am I choosing to let this upset me? And Start to look for the things that make your differences beneficial.  Does