A Perspective W/ Aaron & Ashley

“Dads are n***as too!” Can you guess what we’re talking about on this week’s Minisode?! INSECURE Season 4 episodes 2 & 3! WE KNOW it’s over an hour! We were just talking and talking and talking and talking BUT if you’ve seen #Insecure you understand. So before you watch episode 4 get a rundown of what’s been going on and our take on all things Insecure season 4 episodes 2 & 3! “Pow Pow Pow!” --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

When was the last time you made a new friend? On this week’s episode Aaron discusses making friends as an “adult.” During #5Questions Aaron and Ashley answer this question: Is being right better than sex? During #UnderMySkin find out who’s been looking for chicken thighs only to be disappointed! There’s so much being watched these days, but during #WhatAreYouWatching CLASSIC movie Player’s Club and School Daze are highlighted. PLUS we’re digging into all things Insecure season 4 episode 1! Ashley talks about missing a relationship when you’re single and missing your single days when you’re in a relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Yup! It’s a Quarantine Minisode! Aaron and Ashley are chatting about a few things: What shows are you binge watching? What have you learned about yourself so far while social distancing? Then we wrap with some “quarantine rambling” as Ashley called it.... Stay informed and safe everyone! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Name one of the things that drunk you helped sober you do? Is there such a thing as being too trusting of someone? Anal or Orgy? Aaron & Ashley are answering a variety of questions during #5Questions on this weeks episode. Where are these glasses at?! Get the details during #UnderMySkin and see how The Rona is the star of this segment. During #WhatAreYouWatching Sally Langston aka. Dr. Ellis Grey was a guest star on Charmed and there’s a “hard to watch scene” on Grey’s involving one of our beloved characters. Ashley explores the question “once you break up with someone is it really over or is there a ‘cooling off period’ where you should wait before getting with someone else?” Aaron wants to know how we’re using this moment in time to expand explore or grow personally. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

In our Cardi B voice “Corona Virus! S*it is real, sh*t is getting real....” We’re kicking off Minisode 26 giving our initial perspectives on COVID-19 and it’s impact. Then, Aaron gets a word from Ashley as they explore what happens to the individual person when there’s a “shakeup” amongst a group of friends. Is it FOMO, is it jealousy, or is it just a lack of acceptance to a new way of being? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

If you’re having a baby by a cheating man and you don’t want him in the delivery room but he does is it ok to tell him no? Aaron and Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Someone had a case of mistaken identity during #UnderMySkin and someone is watching On My Block during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron wants to talk about “leveling up” while Ashley wants to discuss finances in relationships. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

5 QUESTIONNNNNNS!!!! 1. Would you agree to be a side chick for $3k a month! 2. Is it easier to forgive your sexual relationships vs your platonic ones? 3. Talk about a perspective that you once had that is no longer true for you. What is it and what do you think has changed? 4. Where does sex/intimacy fall when you’re focused and on the grind/hustle? 5. What does it mean for you to listen to yourself; to trust your decisions? #5Questions --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

IT’S OUR ANNIVERSARY SPECIAL!!!! One year and 50 episodes later and we’re still here. A BIG THANK YOU to our listeners! Now check out this special anniversary episode and be sure to listen to the end for a special gift from Aaron & Ashley.... ENJOY! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Ashley wants to know is there anything that your elder family members talk about that makes you uncomfortable? Listen to find out just how far family will take the conversation when you’re an adult. Aaron needs your thoughts on ANOTHER “people asking for money” situation. The internal struggle is real. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Friendships- How do you nurture them? Does the longevity of them mean anything you? Ashley asks these questions and more on this week’s episode. Fill in the blank: I cannot date somebody who ______. Find out how Aaron & Ashley answered that during #5Questions. Family, just because you love them does not mean they don’t get #UnderMySkin at times- find out who, what, when, where, and why. We’re talking Grey’s Anatomy (of course!) and Monk(?!) during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron explores the idea of love and hate being the same thing, an obsession. Oh! Idk what happened to the sound. Enjoy! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

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On this week’s episode Aaron & Ashley rank these hot sauces: Texas Pete, Tabasco, Red Hot, & Cholula. Listen to #UnderMySkin to find out who is a repeat offender and what happened this time. Grey’s Anatomy is back and discussed during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron talks (and talks) about complicated feelings while Ashley talks about broken bonds and who’s responsible for mending them. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

“Watch out world I’m grown now, I’M GROWN!” Season 3 of Grown-ish has begun and while we’re only two episodes into the season we have to talk about the latest episode that Ashley considers one of her favorites of the series! So go watch the episode for yourself and join in the conversation! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

What happens when you decide to record on your day off and with candy?! You get a bunch of laughs for no reason.... On this week’s episode Aaron and Ashley decide which of THESE two classic songs could they have written themself? Listen to find out which two songs they had to choose from and which one they picked during #5Questions. On #WhatAreYouWatching Charmed is back, Netflix’s The Circle finished its first season, and someone needs to watch Tyler Perry’s A Fall From Grace so we can discuss. You cannot choose your family, but you can choose how you deal with them. Find out how the family was dealt with during #UnderMySkin this week. Ashley talks about finances and Aaron talks about leading people on. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

First minisode of the year! First minisode of the decade! And we decided to bring you our famous #5Questions, but with a twist! Listen in so you find out what it is and be sure to join in the conversation by answering for yourself! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

HAPPY NEW YEAR! It’s 2020 and we’re back, still giving you our perspective on “life love and everything in between” and having fun while doing it. So check out our first episode of the year and get ready to think and laugh! Which Drake album that came out in the last decade is better? Nothing Was The Same, Views, or If You’re Reading This.... Listen to #5questions to hear the answer and more. Find out who got under their own skin and who needs repeck put on their name during #UnderMySkin. On #WhatAreYouWatching we find out why Netflix’s #You is a must see and discover who named a song Watermelon Sugar. Aaron plans to get clarity asap on what he wants or doesn’t want out of a relationship and Ashley discusses her 2020 vision board. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

It’s our holiday special and last conversation of the year! Listen in to this week’s Minisode where we’re just running our mouth and chatting about whatever comes to mind.... This is our Christmas gift to you! See you in 2020!!!! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Would you lie to your partner to save your relationship? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions. On this week’s episode Aaron asks 1906 questions to get some insight into the transition from being single to getting into “something” with someone else. If you have bad breath and you’re up close and personal with customers should you wear a mask? Find out their thoughts during #UnderMySkin. You’ll have to listen to #WhatAreYouWatching to find out what it sounds like while Grey’s Anatomy is on hiatus? Ashley discusses having a “work spouse” and if/when does it reach a point where it becomes inappropriate when you’re in a relationship. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Code-switching. What is it? What are the different types? Is it even necessary? Aaron & Ashley use the latest episode of Mixed-ish to answer these questions and more when discussing code-switching. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

“The caucasity of this man!” Find out what happened during #UnderMySkin on this week’s episode. Name a spinoff that was better than the show it came from? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions. Disney+ is as good as advertised and with the X-Men cartoon series up there #WhatAreYouWatching gets nostalgic while we also recap Grey’s Anatomy through the mid-season finale. Aaron wants to know what are the requirements for a good FWB relationship and is there a time limit for how long that kind of relationship can last? Ashley uses the latest episode of Mixed-ish to discuss the parent vs step-parent dynamics.... HAPPY THANKSGIVING! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message