A Perspective W/ Aaron & Ashley

During the bachelorette or bachelor party your fiancé ends up getting more than a lap dance. Is it considered cheating? If you could recreate Oprah’s Legends Ball, name 5 legends and 5 youngins you would celebrate? Aaron and Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out who’s neighbor’s are in #UnderMySkin and what they did to get there. Grey’s Anatomy is back so we’re discussing it during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about dealing with a fallout between siblings. Aaron wants to know when it’s appropriate to introduce “sex talk” when getting to know someone. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Do you have to lose yourself in order to find happiness? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Would you apologize to someone if you believed you were not in the wrong? What is a genuinely innocent question yet usually offensive to the person it’s directed at? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this weeks’s episode. Find out why McDonald’s Sweet Tea made it to #UnderMySkin and someone finished watching Psych during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron talks about experiences that may or may not define who we are. Ashley talks about falling in love again and if it’s possible to have that “puppy love” “first love” “innocent love” a second time. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

“Watch out world I’m grown now, I’M GROWN!” We’re digging into our top three storylines since the return of Grown-ish. #WhatAreYouWatching --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

What would you do if a close friend was trying to trick another close friend into thinking their baby was theirs? Have you ever dated someone to make others jealous? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more on a Bridgerton inspired #5Questions. Find out why Sprint, now part of T-Mobile ended up getting #UnderMySkin and what someone thought of The Little Things during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about how to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a relationship where every day is Valentine’s Day. Aaron is thinking about dating, in a pandemic. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

We’re discussing ‘Girl Like Me’ from Jazmine Sullivan’s latest project Heaux Tales. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Antoinette’s Tale, Ari’s Tale, Donna’s Tale, Precious’ Tale, & Amanda’s Tale- we’re using Jazmine Sullivan’s project Heaux Tales on this week’s episode during #5Questions. The lack of respect for personal space during a pandemic shows up during #UnderMySkin while someone forgetting to watch Grown-ish almost caused the episode to end early during #WhatAreYouWatching. Aaron discuses the “American Dream” and wants to know how our idea of success has shifted over the years. Ashley explores the boundaries of discussing your past when you’re with both your partner and friends; is it possible to respect your partner and be true to yourself? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Have you heard Jazmine Sullivan’s new project Heaux Tales? Well if you haven’t listened, we’re sure after you hear this you won’t hesitate to press play. On this week’s Minisode we’re discussing the song ‘Lost One’ and asking is it selfish to make those kinds of request to an ex? ALSO, did you hear about the upcoming season of Issa Rae’s Insecure? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

“Let’s talk about sex baby!” Name a time in your life where you were emotionally slutty (revealed too much too soon)? What’s something you find comfort in that could be holding you back from the next level? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week's episode. It’s a new year but the same things are still getting #UnderMySkin as parents and commercials show up during this part of the show. During #WhatAreYouWatching we’re discussing Netflix’s Bridgerton as well as SVU and who we’re looking forward to seeing come back this season. Ashley discusses being comfortable talking to friends about sex and how detailed you should get. Aaron talks about the impact a past experience can have your future self, even after you’ve “moved on.” --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

HAPPY NEW YEAR! We’re kicking off 2021 recapping our favorite #5Questions of 2020.... So press play to hear the 10 we choose and we’ll see you soon with new episodes and fresh minisodes! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Go back to your ex or repeat 2020? Should sexually fluid men notify men that they’ve been with other men? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Someone had 3 things to talk about during #UnderMySkin, including washing their face with dish detergent. During #WhatAreYouWatching find out who’s falling for Law & Order SVU all over again. Aaron talks about the imbalances in certain types of relationships and if it’s sustainable. Ashley discusses normalizing revenge and the imbalance between those who carry out revenge and the reason why they did it.... MERRY CHRISTMAS! ~~~~ 1:06 5Questions 19:17 Under My Skin 25:19 What Are You Watching 36:28 “A” Perspectives 1:19:01 Reflections --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

It’s FIIIIVE QUESTIONS (Whoo-Whoop!) Agree or no- Independent women will never ask for anything so you should just offer or do for them. Something you’ve learned in 2020 and something you missed in 2020 What would you do if you had to chose between saving the mother of your child or saving the child at Itself? Rate yourself 1-10 and you cannot use 7? What are you “must haves” when you’re moving? --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Is twerking acceptable brunch behavior? What’s one thing you want your exes to be able to say about you even after the breakup? Aaron & Ashley answer this and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Some people don’t respect the rules of public bathroom etiquette. Find out how this and sloppy joes ended up in #UnderMyskin. Law & Order SVU and Grey’s Anatomy are back in #WhatAreYouWatching! Ashley talks about the importance of the Christmas holiday in relationships. Aaron wants to know when does saying what’s on your mind cross the line. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

We’re thankful for YOU.... and few other things! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

It’s bitter sweet but the end (if that’s what they wanna call an ending) is here and on this week’s #Minisode we’re discussing season 8 of Girlfriends. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Can masturbation become boring? Explain. Chili and cornbread or chili and rice? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find out whose neighbors and why Apple showed up during #UnderMySkin. During #WhatAreYouWatching we continue our dissection of “My Giirrllfriends (myyyy girlfriends)” with season 7 episodes 12-22. Aaron talks about the 18/30 18/90 rule and why some parents should reexamine their part in who their children have become. Ashley uses a hilarious play to have a serious conversation about the influence mothers have on their child’s relationships. —— 1:24 5Questions 16:16 Under My Skin 27:09 What Are You Watching 59:39 “A” Perspective --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Season 7 Episodes 1-11 of MY GIIRRLFRIEEENNNDSSSS (myyyyyyy girlfriends).... #Girlfriends #WhatAreYouWatching --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

If you could no longer watch one of these Mara Brock Akil shows which one would you give up and why- The Game, Being Mary Jane, or Girlfriends? If your friend gets with someone who you’ve had a relationship with before do you tell them? Would you want to know if it were you? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Find why a trip to the nail salon showed up during #UnderMySkin- it may shock you. We’re on to season 6 of MY GIIRRLLFRIENDS during #WhatAreYouWatching. Ashley talks about double dating while Aaron discusses asking questions vs. being told information while dating. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Season 5 of MY GIIRRLFRIEEENNNDSSSS #Girlfriends #WhatAreYouWatching --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message

Think about someone that loves you and they’re not family- how would you describe their love? Unpopular opinion: Kripsy Kreme is trash.... yes or no? Aaron and Ashley answer these and more during #5Questions on this week’s episode. Traffic OH traffic! Why do you always show up during #UnderMySkin. A quick Big Brother recap starts #WhatAreYouWatching while season 4 of #Girlfriends dominates the conversation. Aaron talks about assumptions that create tension in friendships. Ashley discusses roommate etiquette when your boyfriend/girlfriend is over. ~~~~ 1:06 Business 1:32 #5Questions 12:03 #UnderMySkin 15:02 #WhatAreYouWatching 56:51 “A” Perspective 1:24:14 Looking Forward 1:26:34 #Reflections --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/APerspective/message