Kelly Martin Speaks

Have you spent most of your life striving without success? Has depression been an experience you have had a lot of? Does everything just feel so futile? Feel like you're banging your head against a brick wall? This episode is for you.

Are you drained because of the entire Brexit torture saga? Are you in the USA in real emotional pain due to politics? Or do you feel you have lost your national identity and don't know how to cope with what is happening in the world right now? Todays podcast helps address key events taking place on the planet and also helps you to find inner balance and unity during such events. FULL TRANSCRIPT available at Kelly Martin Speaks

We all experience death, but how many of us take it seriously? We may see someone has died and think 'You never know when it is going to happen' and we go about our daily life, but what if death could be a call to life like you never imagined it could be?

How do we handle people who attack us? Why do people in pain lash out? In the current state of chaotic world events what is truly happening in the world on social media and how can we better take care of our own inner world during a time like this?

When does focusing on the future dreams become dangerous? Are you sacrificing your NOW to an imaginary future or trying to escape your present? In this episode I talk about why it's important to become very aware so we can regain our life energy from the past or future.

Do you feel like you have been struggling for a very long time? Does struggle feel more comfortable than ease? Perhaps you are addicted and you don't know why? Listen to Episode 68 where I speak more about having an addiction to struggle and how we can begin to change this.

In this weeks episode a listener asked the question 'Why are we reluctant to tell people we are struggling and what's the worst that could happen?' So I dig deep to see why we do this, what can we do differently, how can we receive the support we need when we are struggling with mental health issues. If you would like an episode dedicated to you, please email me at kellymartinspeaks@gmail.com

Do you think you're ready to face your wounds? Is there any reason that you may be too scared to? And are there any secondary benefits to remaining where you are? In this episode I discuss wounding and how sometimes what we fear may be very different to be believe on a conscious level. Read the transcript for this podcast at KELLYMARTINSPEAKS.CO.UK

Have you wrestled hard against the fact that receiving has become almost impossible? Be it love, money, feedback, acknowledgement? What if your inability to receive comes down to a deep intrinsic feeling of 'valuelessness' born from early life events and trauma?

We live in a world where we have many roles, but what if the roles we are playing are no longer serving us? What if those roles are actually not only holding us back but keeping us separate from loved ones or the potential for love in our lives?

Some say the apocalypse is coming, others feel we are heading towards greatness and in the middle are those responding and reflecting. What do you do when the world seems like it is in chaos and everyone is triggered and reacting? How do we as a human species move forward in a positive way?    

We can all dream about the future, but when does dreaming become dangerous? And how can we keep dreaming without drowning in disappointment? I also talk about: Why dreaming is not a bad thing How the essence of those wants and dreams hold the key Why we must consider what we have here now for true happiness and so much more... Support my podcast by buying me a coffee below ----more---- Follow Me: My Website Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher Kelly Martin Speaks Blog Twitter Instagram Facebook   Buy Books: When Everyone Shines But You When Everyone Shines Including You  

Are fairy tale stories killing your relationships? In this podcast I talk about how our unconscious story telling is stopping us from evolving and growing in relationships and sometimes making us run and flee. I also talk about.... Why we overlook the unticked boxes How if we had the fairy tale we would all die of boredom Why we must release the fairy tale Why the honeymoon period is meant to come to an end How to use this as a teaching tool and so much more...       Support my podcast by buying me a coffee below ----more---- Follow Me: My Website Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher Kelly Martin Speaks Blog Twitter Instagram Facebook   Buy Books: When Everyone Shines But You When Everyone Shines Including You  

In episode 60 I talk about many difficult topics. Why world conflict and challenges are triggering so many of us right now. I talk about repressed pain, volcanic eruptions taking place through people and... Why repressed fears are being projected through our leaders How our leaders like Trump, Boris Johnson and more are not responsible but a representation of a huge energy shift taking place, while they may be fuelling conflict, it is our own inner world that is calling out for attention Why we will continue to project onto others and encounter conflict until we own it and become fully empowered Why the loss of identity and fear of death is catalysing conflict right now How a sense of a loss of power is creating a desire to control our reality and so much more... PLEASE NOTE: I do talk about Donald Trump, guns, the 'Me Too' movement, Civil War, the opposition, prejudice and more. No judgements of what is right or wrong, simply an overview and conversation on what could be taking place right now for us

In episode 59 I talk about pleasure and how it can become pain if left unchecked. I go into: Why pleasure is pain How we can get lost in the seeking and miss out on what is here Ways to embrace what is, even when life is difficult Why tools like EFT can bring relief when challenged and so much more...   Sources mentioned in this podcast: Brad Yates - EFT teacher - see more on You Tube Byron Katie - author of 'Loving What Is' and many more Support my podcast by buying me a coffee below ----more---- Follow Me: My Website Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher Kelly Martin Speaks Blog Twitter Instagram Facebook   Buy Books: When Everyone Shines But You When Everyone Shines Including You  

Episode Summary:  Listen to episode 58 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Why You Need To Leave Your Narcissist Partner' In this episode I talk about narcissism, gas-lighting and toxic relationships. This is not just with a partner, but can be with parents, children, employers, religious leaders, politicians and more. I go into: The 10 signs that you are in a relationship with a narcissist My own experiences of narcissism in a romantic relationship How narcissists and gas-lighters can often be one in the same Why you may be being gas-lighted and not know about and so much more... If you feel you are in a relationship with a narcissist or someone is gas-lighting you please get help from an expert in mental health or go to friends or family for support. You don't have to do this all alone. To start becoming aware of the gas-lighting start taking notes of what is happening, so you have written evidence so you don't need to question your sanity. A practice of meditation can help you strengthen you sense of self,

Episode Summary:  Listen to episode 57 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Are You Afraid To Be Alone?' In this episode I talk about romance, relationships and attachments and where our real fear of aloneness comes from and how to change this. Why the 'happily ever after' fantasy is never sustainable How the idea that another person can fill the hole of loneliness is not possible How to begin to make peace with 'aloneness' Why oneness is what we seek more than anything and so much more... Support my podcast by buying me a coffee below ----more---- Follow Me: My Website Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher Kelly Martin Speaks Blog Twitter Instagram Facebook   Buy Books: When Everyone Shines But You When Everyone Shines Including You  

Episode Summary:  Listen to episode 56 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Why It's A Gift To Not Know Who You Are' In this episode I talk about coming to a place of transition, a blank space in life which the mind desperately wants to fill and why this place is an absolute gift! Why life brings us to this place in life How not knowing can reveal so much about what we need to let go of Why not knowing and surrendering to this can actually be far more empowering than trying to 'power through' to a destination or to mould our lives to how we 'think' they should be and so much more... Support my podcast by buying me a coffee below ----more---- Follow Me: My Website Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher Kelly Martin Speaks Blog Twitter Instagram Facebook   Buy Books: When Everyone Shines But You When Everyone Shines Including You  

Episode Summary: Listen to episode 55 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'Is It Time To Accept Your Life Challenges?' In this episode I talk about acceptance and how to accept the truth's happening in our lives. Why acceptance is nothing to do with hopelessness How to accept what is from an empowering place Why acceptance may be a time of deep surrender or a time of new choices and opportunities and so much more... ----more---- Follow Us: Our Website Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher Kelly Martin Speaks Blog Twitter Instagram Facebook   Buy Books: When Everyone Shines But You When Everyone Shines Including You  

Episode Summary: Listen to episode 54 of Kelly Martin Speaks, 'How To Be At Peace' In this episode I talk about what genuine peace is. Why peace is not what you think it is How peace evolves from within the pain not in resisting the pain Why being at peace has always been within you and so much more... ----more---- Follow Us: Our Website Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify Listen on Stitcher Kelly Martin Speaks Blog Twitter Instagram Facebook   Buy Books: When Everyone Shines But You When Everyone Shines Including You